Sinkinshyp
Paragon
- Sep 7, 2020
- 947
I'm having one of my days that it's hard to feel anything other than pain and wanting my son. Next month just over 2 1/2 weeks my son will be gone 3 years October 13 and also my CTB date. Just about 2 weeks past that I'm supposed to be 49. I just am so destroyed. I want to take this card, his ashes, my pictures of my boys and go to the hotel and just CTB tomorrow. Waking up is just so much torture. I just cannot function without my son. We were so close. I just don't know why my heart keeps beating it's just so broken my heart was his how can it keep beating. He was my life my everything my reason to be. I just want to hug him and hold him. I'm not asking to be rich or famous I just want my family back. I just want my son. I am so angry I let him get his license. He would have had his license 2 yrs Oct 28th. He didn't even have it 2 years and died in a car accident at 25. He always had a passion for cars. He always had a car since 15 he would do things to them and sell them for profit. I wouldn't let him get his license because I always feared he would die in a car accident. I told him a car is a deadly piece of equipment. He wasn't responsible enough to take the garbage out he surely isn't responsible enough to have a license. He respected me and did not get his license after he turned 18. He was such an amazing person, son, man & friend.
I'm so sorry for those who have bad moms. I wish I could just hug you all and hold you and love you as a mom. It would help heal my broken heart and hopefully give you the love you need but are unable to get. I would love to tell horrible parents what hell is- waking up never to hear I love you mom, waking up and being so broken you can't even put your sox on because you're shaking and crying for your child. I just want my son I just want a hug from him I just want him to say I love you mom...
When my older son picked out cards or gifts for me I know he put a lot of thought into it, he just didn't grab any card or item. 2013 was a rough one as I was on life support for respiratory failure from emphysema and cold germs in September. He was 21 than and faced with some decisions as my next of kin. This was my birthday card from 2014. His writing is horrible so I'll type what he wrote. He always tried to use poetry since he was a teenager. Here is what he wrote on the card.
Mom your birthday means so much to me. To have you in my life another year. The time I spend enfolded in your love each day each moment is so dear. I cherish the very special bond we have. You lift my spirit in so many ways. I celebrate your life. I honor you and send you my love and care and praise. Hope today and the rest of time goes nothing but uphill for you. I appreciate everything you've done for me and I hope for nothing but happiness for you. Love you mom Happy Birthday.
I only wish he knew that happiness he wished upon me was already there. I had my sons at home and being mom made me happier than I could have ever thought possible..
I'm so sorry for those who have bad moms. I wish I could just hug you all and hold you and love you as a mom. It would help heal my broken heart and hopefully give you the love you need but are unable to get. I would love to tell horrible parents what hell is- waking up never to hear I love you mom, waking up and being so broken you can't even put your sox on because you're shaking and crying for your child. I just want my son I just want a hug from him I just want him to say I love you mom...
When my older son picked out cards or gifts for me I know he put a lot of thought into it, he just didn't grab any card or item. 2013 was a rough one as I was on life support for respiratory failure from emphysema and cold germs in September. He was 21 than and faced with some decisions as my next of kin. This was my birthday card from 2014. His writing is horrible so I'll type what he wrote. He always tried to use poetry since he was a teenager. Here is what he wrote on the card.
Mom your birthday means so much to me. To have you in my life another year. The time I spend enfolded in your love each day each moment is so dear. I cherish the very special bond we have. You lift my spirit in so many ways. I celebrate your life. I honor you and send you my love and care and praise. Hope today and the rest of time goes nothing but uphill for you. I appreciate everything you've done for me and I hope for nothing but happiness for you. Love you mom Happy Birthday.
I only wish he knew that happiness he wished upon me was already there. I had my sons at home and being mom made me happier than I could have ever thought possible..