caterpilaa
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- Apr 12, 2021
- 12
I'm slowly cutting off all my friends, it's not like a deliberate choice it's just that spending time with them makes me feel worse than when I'm on my own so I've just stopped leaving my room or replying to them. In fact, being around them actually pisses me off and I don't know why, I feel like I actually hate them even though they've done nothing to me and have been supportive and understanding but they actually make me angry for no reason and I just want to be left alone. They text me periodically to "check in" in the most weighted way imaginable and it feels patronising even though it probably isn't. One of my friends even texts me shit like "you still alive?" and I know it's not in a joking or ironic way. I never really told anyone I was struggling but it's pretty obvious. I feel like I have nothing left to say to any of them, in fact almost all of my friends have been leaving me out of stuff for a long time now, before I even started feeling this way and it used to upset me more than anything but now even thought it still hurts when they blatantly make no effort to include me, I can't really blame them anymore and I almost feel grateful that I have an actual excuse to not spend time with them. I should be happy to even have friends but I just feel absolutely no connection to any of them whatsoever and I just get angry thinking about them and want to be left alone. Being in room surrounded by people who are supposed to be my friends feels like suffocating. I suppose feeling like this is preferable to feeling left out though. I literally feel bitter towards everyone in my life and I don't know why, and when I do make the effort to be nice or reach out or try and arrange something I'm met with radio silence which obviously is partly due to my own being distant but like I said this really is only a recent thing and my friends have always been rather flaky and uninterested, now it's just reciprocal. Sorry for sounding so bitter I just kind of am, and I don't know why but honestly it doesn't even bother me because I sort of prefer it to feeling lonely and left out.