Ob La Dee
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- Aug 4, 2021
- 76
Hello friends. So after two impulsive, failed attempts last December (partial hanging, cutting wrists) I'm planning to ctb next week w/SN. I will be going through with it on my late mother's birthday, August 13th.
A bit about me: I am a 54 year old mother of five kids, 18, 20, 31, 34 and 36. I am currently estranged from my three sons due to my suicide attempts. They don't want to be around my "negative energy" anymore.
I get by on SSI and food stamps (psych disability, $794/month) and I live in a boarding house. I have a roommate here, and she is always home, making it difficult for me to ctb. I will be doing it in my car in a secluded spot. I would prefer to do it in my own bed, but it's simply not realistic. Ctbing in my car feels sad and lonely but it's the only way.
I am not afraid, in fact I almost feel elated now that I have found this method. I was originally going to try the "night night" method (too hard to find the carotid artery) then pong pong seeds (slow, agonizing death) until I stumbled upon SN. This is how I will leave this dreadful world.
I feel somewhat guilty because I know my kids will take it hard - including the ones who are no longer speaking to me - but I feel like I'm out of options. I have thought long and hard about this.
I left instructions in a note to my kids telling them that I don't want an elaborate funeral and that I wish to be cremated. A memorial service will be nice for them when they're ready. I would like the song "Seasons of Love" played at the beginning and "Cabaret" played at the end. No religious mumbo jumbo for me.
Well that's about it. If you're still reading, thanks for letting me get this off my chest. Peace.
A bit about me: I am a 54 year old mother of five kids, 18, 20, 31, 34 and 36. I am currently estranged from my three sons due to my suicide attempts. They don't want to be around my "negative energy" anymore.
I get by on SSI and food stamps (psych disability, $794/month) and I live in a boarding house. I have a roommate here, and she is always home, making it difficult for me to ctb. I will be doing it in my car in a secluded spot. I would prefer to do it in my own bed, but it's simply not realistic. Ctbing in my car feels sad and lonely but it's the only way.
I am not afraid, in fact I almost feel elated now that I have found this method. I was originally going to try the "night night" method (too hard to find the carotid artery) then pong pong seeds (slow, agonizing death) until I stumbled upon SN. This is how I will leave this dreadful world.
I feel somewhat guilty because I know my kids will take it hard - including the ones who are no longer speaking to me - but I feel like I'm out of options. I have thought long and hard about this.
I left instructions in a note to my kids telling them that I don't want an elaborate funeral and that I wish to be cremated. A memorial service will be nice for them when they're ready. I would like the song "Seasons of Love" played at the beginning and "Cabaret" played at the end. No religious mumbo jumbo for me.
Well that's about it. If you're still reading, thanks for letting me get this off my chest. Peace.