Dr Iron Arc

Dr Iron Arc

Into the Unknown
Feb 10, 2020
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This is so difficult for some of us. If I fancy someone at the time then I can fantasise about them, but otherwise, thinking up a random scenario with a random person (that is "enough" to get me turned on) is very challenging. I'm very visualar which is why porn was always my go-to.
Yeah, it's nothing easy especially for anyone used to regular porn. That's why I suggested to ease into it by starting with erotic literature written by other people which there's no shortage of on the internet. You could even try to find explicit fan fiction on archiveofourown. Of course this is still assuming you want to wean off porn in the first place.
 
popcorn

popcorn

Experienced
Dec 20, 2020
298
its super hard to quit cold turkey, for me i had to reduce my frequency first missing a day or two then build that period.

it took me weeks of not watching any porn to get my imagination back if that makes sense. try again brudda i bet you can make it, might just take a few goes :)
 
BeansOfRequirement

BeansOfRequirement

Behind the guilt was compassion
Jan 26, 2021
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its super hard to quit cold turkey, for me i had to reduce my frequency first missing a day or two then build that period.

it took me weeks of not watching any porn to get my imagination back if that makes sense. try again brudda i bet you can make it, might just take a few goes :)
One go was enough, thank you. This emotional pain is something I will not experience again, and I am feeling way better about my situation than before this "experience".
 
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popcorn

Experienced
Dec 20, 2020
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One go was enough, thank you. This emotional pain is something I will not experience again, and I am feeling way better about my situation than before this "experience".
i feel ya mate, well at least ya tried. i once used clomid to suppress my libido whilst boosting my test temporarily, kinda gave me a head start.

do you feel your regular deadlifting/leg workouts has increased your test?
 
BeansOfRequirement

BeansOfRequirement

Behind the guilt was compassion
Jan 26, 2021
5,747
do you feel your regular deadlifting/leg workouts has increased your test?
I don't need testosterone, I just lift because it removes the emotional pain. I'm not a self-development guy chasing after women at the moment tbh.
 

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