Nobody listens

[OvertheRainbeaux]

Why is it that nobody truly listens?

I explain how I feel all I get is something a long the lines of:
"It will get better" "Stay strong" "Everything will work out"

I just want to scream

NO IT WONT IT NEVER HAS!!

but nobody listens, nobody truly cares.
They hear depression and think omg we need to get out of this topic so here's some positive words now let's move on.
well no I can't move on it's not easy for me. I struggle with this every second of the day. I want someone to truly listen and tell me what I can do and need to hear to better myself and life.

but maybe then again there's just no hope for me.
Oh well my clock is ticking anyways.

 

[Brick In The Wall]

I understand the frustration and have heard the same all too many times myself. Most people will give you platitudes because they don't have any solutions. Solutions can be hard to come by and usually involve alot of work. Maybe some of us would have a few suggestions if you explain what's troubling you specifically.

 

[OvertheRainbeaux]

Maybe some of us would have a few suggestions if you explain what's troubling you specifically.

Well it's a lot to explain I'd have to write a detailed post on myself and life lol but I've definitely explained the gist of what's going on in different forums and threads.

 

[Brick In The Wall]

Well it's a lot to explain I'd have to write a detailed post on myself and life lol but I've definitely explained the gist of what's going on in different forums and threads.

Write your story out in one thread. It will give us a better idea of how to help you. But more importantly it'll help you piece together a stronger narrative of the issues you face. Not to mention it can be a bit therapeutic to write it out.

I'm also only ever a PM away if you just need someone to talk to.

 

[Flume]

A bad talk doesn't mean there's no hope for you, it means that the one you talked to didn't handle the situation well. I know all about shit talks, been a human crash test dummy for poeples fucking idiocy for 4 years now. Finding the right one to talk to is very difficult.

From what you said here it seems to be just terrible. If most of the convo went something like; It will get better stay strong, then... no that's not how you do it. I'm sorry that happend to you love

 

[zherhk]

People are 100% unconscious about what they say and don't weight their words not even in this situations.

 

[S1mpleme]

Why is it that nobody truly listens?

I explain how I feel all I get is something a long the lines of:
"It will get better" "Stay strong" "Everything will work out"

I just want to scream

NO IT WONT IT NEVER HAS!!

but nobody listens, nobody truly cares.
They hear depression and think omg we need to get out of this topic so here's some positive words now let's move on.
well no I can't move on it's not easy for me. I struggle with this every second of the day. I want someone to truly listen and tell me what I can do and need to hear to better myself and life.

but maybe then again there's just no hope for me.
Oh well my clock is ticking anyways.

I can be wrong in your case, but from my experience, you need someone to shut up and just listen to you, hug you all the time and do something together like eat ice cream.