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My husband of 26 years walked out without warning just over 3 months ago. I don't feel that there is any way he will change his mind...so it's time to depart.

Looking at methods SN appears the easiest. I've read about people using duct tape and a bag but can't find much about it here.
 
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My husband of 26 years walked out without warning just over 3 months ago. I don't feel that there is any way he will change his mind...so it's time to depart.

Looking at methods SN appears the easiest. I've read about people using duct tape and a bag but can't find much about it here.

The PPH is your friend as are the other guides and the threads here about specific methods.

You can't use a bag without an inert gas; the suffering will be horrible and you will likely rip the bag off, or die in a horrendous state of panic.

SN seems a very reasonable option.
 
weedoge

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My husband of 26 years walked out without warning just over 3 months ago. I don't feel that there is any way he will change his mind...so it's time to depart.

Looking at methods SN appears the easiest. I've read about people using duct tape and a bag but can't find much about it here.
As Smilla said, the body's reflex against carbon dioxide buildup is so strong, even if you sedate yourself to the point of unconsciousness, without inert gas there's a high chance you'll find some way to remove the bag.
 
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Sorry to hear that. I've tried the duct tape method with bag. It was horrible. I always panic and rip it off. Not a great method imo.
 
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Ashpac

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Sorry to hear that. I've tried the duct tape method with bag. It was horrible. I always panic and rip it off. Not a great method imo.

Agreed, tried it twice, because im a stubborn mofo after it didnt work the first time. Id never try it again.

Plenty of people are going to try the SN method. I am one of them. Good luck in what ever you choose.
 
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Agreed, tried it twice, because im a stubborn mofo after it didnt work the first time. Id never try it again.

Plenty of people are going to try the SN method. I am one of them. Good luck in what ever you choose.
what's the sn method?
 
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My husband of 26 years walked out without warning just over 3 months ago. I don't feel that there is any way he will change his mind...so it's time to depart.

Looking at methods SN appears the easiest. I've read about people using duct tape and a bag but can't find much about it here.
I know that pain all too well. The love of my life decided she no longer needed me in December last year.

It's a pain and hollowness that I can never describe.

Look into Sodium Nitrite. Cheap and readily available.

I truly wish you the best of luck.
 
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I'm in the UK. Sodium nitrite appears to be available here
 
Lion

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is SN the new preferred method? or is N still superior? my main method will be N but would be nice to have a backup if that doesnt work out.
 
weedoge

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is SN the new preferred method? or is N still superior? my main method will be N but would be nice to have a backup if that doesnt work out.
each has their advantage (mainly that SN is far far cheaper than N but SN still requires anti emetics and isn't as peaceful) and there's a lot of controversy of A's deliveries right now. Pain in the ass considering he's the only reliable vendor.
 
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Lion

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each has their advantage (mainly that SN is far far cheaper than N but SN still requires anti emetics and isn't as peaceful) and there's a lot of controversy of A's deliveries right now. Pain in the ass considering he's the only reliable vendor.
wait what controversy? is this a recent thing? i emailed him months ago and he replied but i didnt have the balls and backed out, just recently emailed him after 5 month haitus hoping i could continue where i left off. Is he not reliable anymore?
 
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Merseymike

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Think it's very difficult to get N here.
 
weedoge

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wait what controversy? is this a recent thing? i emailed him months ago and he replied but i didnt have the balls and backed out, just recently emailed him after 5 month haitus hoping i could continue where i left off. Is he not reliable anymore?
It's a long story and been ongoing for a while now, I've no idea how much of it might be pro-lifers or truth, but there must be some truth because even somebody I know is credible was talking about their N being massively delayed. There's a megathread about people waiting for their deliveries from A where you'll find all info. I believe he is still listed in the pph and so still reliable, but idk...
 
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PatKat

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My husband of 26 years walked out without warning just over 3 months ago. I don't feel that there is any way he will change his mind...so it's time to depart.

Looking at methods SN appears the easiest. I've read about people using duct tape and a bag but can't find much about it here.
Check the resource thread. Lots of information and methods there.
 
Lion

Lion

Zzz
Apr 18, 2018
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It's a long story and been ongoing for a while now, I've no idea how much of it might be pro-lifers or truth, but there must be some truth because even somebody I know is credible was talking about their N being massively delayed. There's a megathread about people waiting for their deliveries from A where you'll find all info. I believe he is still listed in the pph and so still reliable, but idk...
ah i see, where might i find this mega thread? so this is recent as in this past summer? first time im hearing of this what a bummer...
 
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Resource link - https://sanctioned-suicide.net/threads/list-of-resources.3/
 
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Merseymike

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The SN has arrived. Still scared of the actual doing though. Suppose that's normal.
 
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Merseymike

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So...Finally met my partner today. Told him how I feel and that I need him. I think he is determined not to reconcile. Everything for him seems to be down to me

Meant to be starting some work next week.

Why don't I just get on with it? I'm scared to do it. That's why. Yet the thought of the alternative ....
 
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Aesthler

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As Smilla said, the body's reflex against carbon dioxide buildup is so strong, even if you sedate yourself to the point of unconsciousness, without inert gas there's a high chance you'll find some way to remove the bag.
Yeah, I wouldn't mess around with bags I know they are easily accessible but water is more reliable if you sedate yourself first.
 
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Lara Francis

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Jun 30, 2018
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My husband of 26 years walked out without warning just over 3 months ago. I don't feel that there is any way he will change his mind...so it's time to depart.

Looking at methods SN appears the easiest. I've read about people using duct tape and a bag but can't find much about it here.
Sorry to hear that your husband did this.
Welcome to the forum - it will provide all the answers you may be looking for.
 

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