My mother has yelled at me, insulting me and saying that I am nothing more than a useless bag of trash

[SadFoxDreamer83]

My mother has yelled at me, insulting me and saying that I am nothing more than a useless bag of trash

 

[DivineSpark]

You have no choice than live with her? My mother is very kind and supportive woman. She knows my mental health struggle. She is closest person to me.

 

[SadFoxDreamer83]

You have no choice than live with her? My mother is very kind and supportive woman. She knows my mental health struggle. She is closest person to me.

My bank account is 0,60 cents, I live in the middle of nowhere, with no chance of finding a job or money to try to escape. Every day they insult me, they shout at me, they humiliate me, sometimes I think they would like me to commit suicide, but I still have the strength to keep fighting to try to find a way to scape far.

 

[DivineSpark]

My bank account is 0,60 cents, I live in the middle of nowhere, with no chance of finding a job or money to try to escape. Every day they insult me, they shout at me, they humiliate me, sometimes I think they would like me to commit suicide, but I still have the strength to keep fighting to try to find a way to scape far.

I am sorry about your situation. You must be feeling trapped.

 

[dragonofenvy]

My mother was shitty to me for my entire life. The only way I was able to deal with it was by playing video games and waiting for the day to pass. I found that talking back or calling her out on something made things worse. At one point when I was 20, she threatened to kick me out of the house in the dead of winter because I got mad that she was doing something stupid (forgot what it was).

If she consistently does this to you, then I'm afraid there might not be much choice other than to try to let the day pass. Even if she's a really shitty person you could try to talk to her at some point when she's calmer and try to explain your situation to her, but I advise caution as these types of people tend to not be very receptive or empathic, even though they're supposed to be your mother.

 

[imnotsurewhy]

I m sorry she sounds awful if this is how she is everyday i would just ignore her i know its probably easier said than done but i wouldnt waste my energy on someone like this i bet youre lovely she IS the issue here sending you a virtual Hug

 

[SadFoxDreamer83]

I am sorry about your situation. You must be feeling trapped.

Thankyou :-)

My mother was shitty to me for my entire life. The only way I was able to deal with it was by playing video games and waiting for the day to pass. I found that talking back or calling her out on something made things worse. At one point when I was 20, she threatened to kick me out of the house in the dead of winter because I got mad that she was doing something stupid (forgot what it was).

If she consistently does this to you, then I'm afraid there might not be much choice other than to try to let the day pass. Even if she's a really shitty person you could try to talk to her at some point when she's calmer and try to explain your situation to her, but I advise caution as these types of people tend to not be very receptive or empathic, even though they're supposed to be your mother.

Yes, toxic people full of hate and selfishness never recognize that they are toxic.

I m sorry she sounds awful if this is how she is everyday i would just ignore her i know its probably easier said than done but i wouldnt waste my energy on someone like this i bet youre lovely she IS the issue here sending you a virtual Hug

Thankyou :-)

 

[Csmith8827]

My moms messed up to me as well...i know how you feel. This ain't forever though. You'll get away eventually. Just hold on....figure out your plan.

 

[SadFoxDreamer83]

My moms messed up to me as well...i know how you feel. This ain't forever though. You'll get away eventually. Just hold on....figure out your plan.

Some days like today I think it's totally impossible to escape again. Iam 41 years old, no job, no income, no car, no bicycle, no friends, no love, no chance to find work, stuck in the middle of nowhere, no public transportation, no chance to escape. I really appreciate your kind words. I wish you the best too :-)