Venting my life is falling apart

[brokendreamsxo]

hello this is my first post here but I had a acount for awhile . I am a trans girl I am in my 20s transitioned 11 years ago found out late September my partner I was with for 2 years been cheating on me the whole time. he didn't even tell me I had to find out and force it out of him .he was lying to me that he wasn't cheating. im so numb now don't know what to do I feel stuck I don't know what to do. I never am good enough for nobody. I am still with him he promises he won't ever do it again but who even knows he lied before. I am so sad I feel so empty inside.

 

[BirthedByTheSquid]

You should definitely break up with him. He's cheated on you AND lied to your face. There is absolutely no reason you should still be in a relationship with him after that. None of this is your fault btw and you're definitely good enough to find someone out there!

 

[BreathOnAMirror]

It's definitely not that you're not good enough for him, I know it can feel that way but I promise, you're good enough for him, you're too good for him even, and clearly he can't see or appreciate that. I've got to agree with BirthedByTheSquid, he doesn't deserve you, and I know being alone is scary, but I swear, it's better than being with someone who doesn't appreciate you. You may be alone for a while, but eventually you'll find someone, promise, someone who shows you the love and care you deserve <3

 

[leaf23]

I'm so sorry he did that to you and broke your trust. You are the best person for yourself. When your partner lied and cheated, that's a reflection of himself of his own weakness, not yours. Regardless of any reason he had for lying and cheating, he prioritized that reason/s over the monogamous commitment he made to you. Whatever decision you make, you deserve to be with someone who can love and appreciate the whole you.

 

[Blue_mist]

Don't be harsh on yourself, you are good enough, he doesn't deserve you
And breaking up is the right thing to do.