Venting My friends forgotten about me

[Sandra]

Just wanted to express how shitty it feels when friends forget abou you. You are seeing someone every other day, spend multiple hours together and then suddenly they move 10km further from you and you don't see them for 6 months.

I asked my friend is everything okay, when would they like to meet. They kept pushing and pushing the meeting. So I asked them straight: do you want to keep in touch? That's okay if you don't want to anymore. People change, sometimes you feel that you don't vibe with someone anymore. They assured me they want to keep in touch. They tried for like 2weeks and then stopped again.

Also, I found that my other group of friends stopped inviting me to hangouts because again, I live a bit further away. I always made an effor to meet recognizing that I live a bit further away and so need more planning to meet up. But my friends are too lazy to plan ahaed so they just started meeting without me.

I am hurt. Forgotten. I really tried to be a good friend, I was there when they needed me. But they are not here for me when I need them. I cannot afford to move closer. And even if I did, what is good having friends who forget about you when you are 10km away? WTF. It's not like I am on a different continent or in a different country.

I just wanted to vent.

 

[cali22♡]

Yes, I know that too well

These kind of people are just disgusting
You always have to run after them, you're nothing to them
That's how these people think
But you are something
You are golden
Don't let these people destroy you try to be in the mindset that you don't care I had sooo many friends who were just like that... and still have them.... You're just invisible to them

THEY SHOULD WRITE TO YOU
And don't run after them don't make yourself their dog they are the dogs here...

OMG HOW I DESPISE PEOPLE LIKE THAT

 

[Sandra]

Yes, I know that too well

These kind of people are just disgusting
You always have to run after them, you're nothing to them
That's how these people think
But you are something
You are golden
Don't let these people destroy you try to be in the mindset that you don't care I had sooo many friends who were just like that... and still have them.... You're just invisible to them

THEY SHOULD WRITE TO YOU
And don't run after them don't make yourself their dog they are the dogs here...

OMG HOW I DESPISE PEOPLE LIKE THAT

Thanks for understanding Yes, i tried for a bit to stay connected with them bit I had to choose self respect and I let them go. Still, it was painful.

 

[cali22♡]

Thanks for understanding Yes, i tried for a bit to stay connected with them bit I had to choose self respect and I let them go. Still, it was painful.

You did the right thing believe me don't be a puppet for them you are you

 

[scarecrowceb]

Just wanted to express how shitty it feels when friends forget abou you. You are seeing someone every other day, spend multiple hours together and then suddenly they move 10km further from you and you don't see them for 6 months.

I asked my friend is everything okay, when would they like to meet. They kept pushing and pushing the meeting. So I asked them straight: do you want to keep in touch? That's okay if you don't want to anymore. People change, sometimes you feel that you don't vibe with someone anymore. They assured me they want to keep in touch. They tried for like 2weeks and then stopped again.

Also, I found that my other group of friends stopped inviting me to hangouts because again, I live a bit further away. I always made an effor to meet recognizing that I live a bit further away and so need more planning to meet up. But my friends are too lazy to plan ahaed so they just started meeting without me.

I am hurt. Forgotten. I really tried to be a good friend, I was there when they needed me. But they are not here for me when I need them. I cannot afford to move closer. And even if I did, what is good having friends who forget about you when you are 10km away? WTF. It's not like I am on a different continent or in a different country.

I just wanted to vent.

It happened to me a lot, even with people I financially helped ( not to get something in return but just because I been there ), when you are really in need you see who really is there for you. This meant they weren't really your friends. As sad as it can be it's a blessing cuz you saw it, it doesn't matter how long u know someone, it matters how much you do with watch other iykwim. Don't stress to much, see it as a blessing. Plenty more people to meet, for now you have urself!

 

[Praestat_Mori]

I really tried to be a good friend, I was there when they needed me.

YOU are a good friend but your "friends" are not. I'm sorry you have go through this. It's really hard to find TRUE friends.