My first time....sadly:(

[S like Siren]

Guys I really need to write this thing here because SS is my home, my family and the place where I felt and I feel welcomed but unfortunately for the first time since I signed up...i happened to be dealing with a creepy person who scared me and made me feel very bad. He contacted me as a ctb partner and for days we chatted normally before here and after on discord and it seemed to be all right ... all ok, when suddenly today he turned out to be a completely different person, asking me for nude photos and acting like an a very unstable and creepy person and it scared me a lot .... it happened some minutes ago and I feel very bad, agitated , and I'm crying no stop:( since I have noone I felt the need to write it here on ss....it was really
a huge disappointing and hurted me a lot:(
In any case I will not let this person no longer make me trust people and SS .... I will continue to believe in this forum because it has only done good things to me and helped me a lot.I just wanted to say that I have had to deal for the first time that i'm here with a creepy person and I hope not to have anything to do with anyone like him ... this forum is full of great people and they are those in whom I believe and who have helped me.

 

[Interloper]

I am sorry that you had to deal with that. (I wish I could say something more comforting but I am just too inept at that)

Please contact the mods about this if you haven't already, those types have no place here and should be dealt with. Fortunately he showed his true self before you met up with him.

 

[Sanva]

I'm very sorry this happened to you. Unfortunately it doesn't really surprise me, there are a lot of creeps out there who want to prey on vulnerable people. it would be good to report his account to make sure he gets banned.

obv you don't have to let this spoil your experience on here but just make sure you're careful with who you talk to & especially who you share information with.

 

[FuneralCry]

I do not think you can really trust people at all. I would always prefer to keep my distance from others. I'm sorry you had to go through this. It sounds terrifying. I wish you the best.

 

[Crazy4u]

thanks for opening your heart to us. What a creep! please report him to the mods.

You are a smart and a lovely woman. I am sorry you had to put up with a douchebag

 

[S like Siren]

I am sorry that you had to deal with that. (I wish I could say something more comforting but I am just too inept at that)

Please contact the mods about this if you haven't already, those types have no place here and should be dealt with. Fortunately he showed his true self before you met up with him.

Thank you very much for your comment
it was a lot of comfort to me, I haven't told the mods yet because after blocking him on discord and telling him to leave me alone
here on ss once and for all it hasn't bothered me anymore.You're right i was lucky it happened now ... I don't dare imagine what would have happened if I had met him in real life!

 

[Huntfish34]

I'm also sorry this happened ,. You deserve better than that. Fckk that dude, report him and maybe he will get banned or something.

Hope everything works out for you,. God Bless.

 

[Crazy4u]

Thank you very much for your comment
it was a lot of comfort to me, I haven't told the mods yet because after blocking him on discord and telling him to leave me alone
here on ss once and for all it hasn't bothered me anymore.You're right i was lucky it happened now ... I don't dare imagine what would have happened if I had met him in real life!

if you don't report him, he will do that to other members

 

[EraseRewind]

I'm sorry you've had this painful experience, I can only echo what's been said in the thread, please report this to the mods.

 

[dreadpirateroberts69]

That's just fucking gross. I'm glad he's not bothering you anymore, but please tell the mods so they can ban him

 

[S like Siren]

if you don't report him, he will do that to other members

It could happen to others too...i'll say it to the mods,yes....i waited since the thing happened on discord not on ss...this person asked for the photos there but i knew this person here on SS.

 

[StarryStarry]

Guys I really need to write this thing here because SS is my home, my family and the place where I felt and I feel welcomed but unfortunately for the first time since I signed up...i happened to be dealing with a creepy person who scared me and made me feel very bad. He contacted me as a ctb partner and for days we chatted normally before here and after on discord and it seemed to be all right ... all ok, when suddenly today he turned out to be a completely different person, asking me for nude photos and acting like an a very unstable and creepy person and it scared me a lot .... it happened some minutes ago and I feel very bad, agitated , and I'm crying no stop:( since I have noone I felt the need to write it here on ss....it was really
a huge disappointing and hurted me a lot:(
In any case I will not let this person no longer make me trust people and SS .... I will continue to believe in this forum because it has only done good things to me and helped me a lot.I just wanted to say that I have had to deal for the first time that i'm here with a creepy person and I hope not to have anything to do with anyone like him ... this forum is full of great people and they are those in whom I believe and who have helped me.

I am so sorry you had to deal with this crap! Please remember that there are assholes everywhere. You seem to be a very nice person and people tend to take advantage of us. I hope you reported this jerk. Don't give up on SS. There are many people here that are good and real.

 

[UpandDownPrincess]

Ooh, this makes me so mad!

I'll add to the call to report him - the mods will handle it from here.

I'm so sorry you met such an asshole here. For a while, you might want to stick to the forums and avoid PMs until you're feeling more comfortable again. Please don't let this piece of crap make you leave us.

 

[Somber]

Definitely report him.

 

[S like Siren]

Guys i'm sorry if i answer only now,yesterday then I fell asleep from tiredness because I was too sad for disappointment and this morning (here where I am I am early afternoon at the moment) I could not visit ss for other problems.I just wanted thank you one by one since your comments have all been a comfort to me and I appreciated them so much<3
@Sanva...you are very right,unfortunately we need to be careful always as at any time it can happen to meet someone like him,thank you<3
@LeavingForever...i felted hurted since we talked for entire days and he was really always nice,someone you can trust and then suddenly he changed and i couldn't belive it in that moment...thank you<3
@Small_Dreams...i did,thank you for your words,you are very kind and sweet and conforted me a lot<3
@Huntfish34...thank you a lot for your comment<3God bless your kind soul<3
@EraseRewind...I did it,thank you<3<3
@dreadpirateroberts69....it is very disappointing and sad yes...especially if you think that he always acted very kind and normal.thank you<3
@StarryStarry...You are right, they are everywhere unfortunately.Thank you very much for your comment and your kind words,they conforted me a lot<3 I'll not give up on SS, it's my family and I know there are so many wonderful people who have me helped, and I believe in these people and in SS.thank you<3
@UpandDownPrincess...Thank you very much for this comment<3 it's true...you feel disappointment and sadder and not able to trust others again but I will not let as you said that this bad experience blocks me from talking to others again people in private chats...thank you<3
@Somber...yes i did,thank you<3
I reported this person to the mods, thank you very much for adviced me and all the support you gave me,it meant a lot for me <3

 

[StarryStarry]

Guys i'm sorry if i answer only now,yesterday then I fell asleep from tiredness because I was too sad for disappointment and this morning (here where I am I am early afternoon at the moment) I could not visit ss for other problems.I just wanted thank you one by one since your comments have all been a comfort to me and I appreciated them so much<3
@Sanva...you are very right,unfortunately we need to be careful always as at any time it can happen to meet someone like him,thank you<3
@LeavingForever...i felted hurted since we talked for entire days and he was really always nice,someone you can trust and then suddenly he changed and i couldn't belive it in that moment...thank you<3
@Small_Dreams...i did,thank you for your words,you are very kind and sweet and conforted me a lot<3
@Huntfish34...thank you a lot for your comment<3God bless your kind soul<3
@EraseRewind...I did it,thank you<3<3
@dreadpirateroberts69....it is very disappointing and sad yes...especially if you think that he always acted very kind and normal.thank you<3
@StarryStarry...You are right, they are everywhere unfortunately.Thank you very much for your comment and your kind words,they conforted me a lot<3 I'll not give up on SS, it's my family and I know there are so many wonderful people who have me helped, and I believe in these people and in SS.thank you<3
@UpandDownPrincess...Thank you very much for this comment<3 it's true...you feel disappointment and sadder and not able to trust others again but I will not let as you said that this bad experience blocks me from talking to others again people in private chats...thank you<3
@Somber...yes i did,thank you<3
I reported this person to the mods, thank you very much for adviced me and all the support you gave me,it meant a lot for me <3

You my dear are more than welcome. If you ever have any issues I have great ears!

 

[Frog]

Who's the creeper? I don't want to be in a place where people can't trust each other. That's not SS. We're supposed to be in this together, so fuck that douchebag with a rusty claw hammer.

 

[Istanbulite]

wow. name and shame!

 

[whatevs]

Sounds like he couldn't pretend to care about you much longer and the facade dropped. It's concerning that you'd have people like him here, trying to prey on the desperate and vulnerable.

 

[Foresight]

That's really sick considering the site they're creeping on with vulnerable people. That really makes me sick. I'm sorry that happened.

 

[SuicideRun]

Unfortunately, there are people who take advantage of the problems of others. It happened to me too. I'm very sorry for what happened to you. Can we intervene in any way?

 

[S like Siren]

You my dear are more than welcome. If you ever have any issues I have great ears!

Aww thank you<3<3<3 same for you,if you need someone to talk to some times i have great ears too:*

Who's the creeper? I don't want to be in a place where people can't trust each other. That's not SS. We're supposed to be in this together, so fuck that douchebag with a rusty claw hammer.

It's true I think so too<3 SS has always been a safe place for me, at least I have never felt I have to feel fear and I definitely don't want to start now, of course you have to be careful anyway always
this is right ... but I wish nobody on this site had anything to do with creepers ... I trust the mods, it is thanks to them,that they work every day to keep this site going in the best way, if SS exists and continues to work and I am grateful to them. As for writing his username here @Moomin17 it doesn't feel right, I informed the mods though and was told they will take care of this.

Sounds like he couldn't pretend to care about you much longer and the facade dropped. It's concerning that you'd have people like him here, trying to prey on the desperate and vulnerable.

Exactly! And it's concerning yes ... because he really pretented too well, I really didn't expect it, I really trusted after chatting a lot with him ... it was this that shocked me and it is unfortunately something that undermines the way you approach others again and trust them.I talk as a very vulnerable person...we are already fucked up we don't deserve also this.

That's really sick considering the site they're creeping on with vulnerable people. That really makes me sick. I'm sorry that happened.

Yes:( it made me feel pretty bad yesterday but now i'm moving on...thank you<3

Unfortunately, there are people who take advantage of the problems of others. It happened to me too. I'm very sorry for what happened to you. Can we intervene in any way?

Oh thank you very much<3 the mods are taking care of it and fortunately he didn't bothered me again.All yours comments were really helpful for me and i'm grateful:)