Venting My family just called me ugly.

[-FrozenRobot-]

So this happened today. I was home from the gym and my mom said "Ew, why does your face look so ugly?" I couldn't say anything. I felt the pressure built up in my throat. This isn't the first time. My dad and brother have done the same. I'm wondering if this is some kind of bad karma or shit. What have I done to deserve this?
I want to CTB as soon as possible. My parents just make my life hard.

 

[goldenvirginia]

I'm so sorry she said that to you. What's ugly is a person who would actually say that to someone one else, especially her own son. You need to move out and get away from that shit if you can.

 

[ClownMe]

It's sad when the ones who are meant to lift us up, tear us down. Im sorry this happened to you, I know how it feels to have shitty parents.

 

[Rogue Proxy]

That's terrible how they verbally abused you! Contrary to popular belief, "family" isn't defined by heredity, surnames, or how many times they say "I love you!". Real families support and care about the well-being and happiness of those they truly love. Unfortunately, breeders always reproduce out of selfish intent, whether it's conforming to society's expectations (like traditions and the life script), validating their social status and self-worth; vicariously living through their offspring, quelling fears of their own mortality and their lineage "dying out"; or treating their offspring as their personal servants and punching bags.

 

[AntHydra]

I have to hope she was trying to make some sort of misplaced in-joke and failed miserably. Otherwise, that is just immensely reprehensible and verbal abuse. Be sure that the reason she said that has nothing to do with whether you are ugly. The only thing she wanted to do was tear you down to lift herself up, to get a little kick out of your pain. I hope you can get away from such people.

 

[FuneralCry]

That is really awful what they said, of course you did not deserve to be told that. People are just so cruel. I'm sorry you have to deal with people like that. I wish you well.

 

[Darkmoon Queen]

So this happened today. I was home from the gym and my mom said "Ew, why does your face look so ugly?" I couldn't say anything. I felt the pressure built up in my throat. This isn't the first time. My dad and brother have done the same. I'm wondering if this is some kind of bad karma or shit. What have I done to deserve this?
I want to CTB as soon as possible. My parents just make my life hard.

It isn't karma, it's 100% on her.

Strange thing for her to say. Is she jealous that you're going to the gym? Maybe she wants to bring you down because she isn't motivated enough to improve herself.

She chose your face because it's not something the gym will improve, not because you're ACTUALLY ugly. She wants to attack something you can't control.

 

[OrcWitch]

What an awful mother. You have a right to be upset.

 

[Beau]

I am so sorry. You did nothing to deserve that. It is really all about your mother and her own personal issues.

Also, so many people put no thought whatsoever into what comes out of their mouths, and it helps me to remind myself of that before reacting to rude and crude remarks.

 

[UseItOrLoseIt]

In instances like these I wish hell was a real place. I wish their damnation was looking at the reflection of their horrible, disfigured souls for all eternity.

 

[Snake of Eden]

I would tell her to eat shit if she wasnt your mom. Wait…

 

[A_miStake_of_NATURE]

Jesus. Your family sound like awful people. I'm sorry you have to live with them. No one deserves that. I know it's almost impossible not to take it close to your heart, but, please, try to. The closest people hurt us the most.
You're not ugly.
And they should shove it.

 

[Ren Elsie Jewelria]

Just today my mother called me a nasty PoS and that she hated me, etc. after I helped her with lots of errands. All because I drank ONE beer while watching youtube. So rude and depressing.

 

[Angst Filled Fuck Up]

Your mom is a bad person. I can say that confidently. I wouldn't say that to anyone let alone family/my kid. Some people have no concept/filter with regards to anything. I can't imagine being anywhere near that petty and I'm a f'ing loser. Go figure.

 

[netrezven]

Don't let them hurt you. Yesterday made a mistake to see my father, case now it's really possible to be one of many limited meetings ever and i was nostalgic about him. Everything went good actually, but today, minutes ago problems started. Just because i gave him 30 minutes, he desided, he is allowed to call me and talk shit about taxes, laws and really stupid stupid stuff. Really love to make him mad about stuff like that. And now i got really ambitious into destroying and breaking every fucking possible law or order he believes in. October is going to be wild.
Our RSI was to find out i wasn't living on my address/what a crime/, and they were gonna tax me and punish me with all the forces of the law /hahahah/, because i rent it and never declared that. And never will. Tendants are so cool, they won't ever rat on me, but my father is chiling out in fear of the law.hahah
And he has no idea that my daily basis work time includes giving orders for like 50-60 heavy crimes, and i should be worried about my adress registration and not declaring rentals. It's so funy and i feel sad about him, living in his tiny miserable wonderland, but it's his choice, not mine.
And today acutally was a day i got some time and went to pay my taxes and declare some new ones /record breaking minimum/, but they thold me to wait?? To wait to pay them my money??? While there were like 50 people in line before me. Administrations, rules, everyone there - such a joke.