My dad is putting his foot down and I am scared

[DeathIsTheWayOut99]

My dad is growing tired of my brothers shit and so am I. Since my brother chooses to abuse my dads card for his own selfishness, my dad is trying to cancel his card and get a new one, along with taking my brother out his expensive school and putting him into a new cheaper one. I have never seen my dad take a stance like this against my brothers bullshit, but I am also scared about whats gonna happen

 

[Deleted member 23009]

I think it's good he's taking a stance because it seems it needs to stop. I hope it works out though, i understand that you're scared but from what i can see something needs to be done or it will get worse.

 

[DeathIsTheWayOut99]

I think it's good he's taking a stance because it seems it needs to stop. I hope it works out though, i understand that you're scared but from what i can see something needs to be done or it will get worse.

No of course. My dads here in my room talking to the card company to close the account. im reminding my dad to not hurt my brother physically (I know hes angry) as it can lead to worse consequences.

 

[Deleted member 23009]

Yeah physical abuse doesn't lead to good things.. Try to help him control his anger

 

[DeathIsTheWayOut99]

Yeah physical abuse doesn't lead to good things.. Try to help him control his anger

Right I talked to him. I think my dad understands. He knows the consequences but the two have had fights before so I am still worried. One time CPS was called about a year ago but thats another story

 

[Deleted member 23009]

Right I talked to him. I think my dad understands. He knows the consequences but the two have had fights before so I am still worried. One time CPS was called about a year ago but thats another story

Well that's good you're talking to him.. I hope it works out and nothing happens.

 

[DeathIsTheWayOut99]

Well that's good you're talking to him.. I hope it works out and nothing happens.

The card is cancelled. My das next step is gonna be taking him out the school

 

[Deleted member 23009]

The card is cancelled. My das next step is gonna be taking him out the school

How is your brother reacting to it?

 

[DeathIsTheWayOut99]

How is your brother reacting to it?

hes not as angry as I thought he would be. I think hes seeing in which way is screwed.

 

[Deleted member 23009]

hes not as angry as I thought he would be. I think hes seeing in which way is screwed.

Yeah I was worried he would lash out more because of this but hopefully it won't get to that point

 

[DeathIsTheWayOut99]

Yeah I was worried he would lash out more because of this but hopefully it won't get to that point

Yeah he is, I think, trying to remain calm. overall im happy for my dad. That he is doing this.

 

[Deleted member 17949]

no clue what will happen but we'll be hear for you to talk to and will try to advise you where possible

 

[DeathIsTheWayOut99]

no clue what will happen but we'll be hear for you to talk to and will try to advise you where possible

thanks. my prediction? there will be a blow out fight at some point. Either right now, later, tomorrow, etc

 

[rt1989526]

What did your brother do

 

[Deleted member 23009]

thanks. my prediction? there will be a blow out fight at some point. Either right now, later, tomorrow, etc

It might happen but just try whatever you can to help keep it calm, hopefully nothing too bad happens

 

[DeathIsTheWayOut99]

It might happen but just try whatever you can to help keep it calm, hopefully nothing too bad happens

Right. thanks guys ill do my best

What did your brother do

its a lot to go into, but if you check my previous posts you'll get the gist of everything.
Anyways guys, bro is angry at dad since my dad called him a dumbass out of anger. Which totally isnt right. ugh. since our mom died their relationship has turned sour