Help My birthday

[Quinlor]

Today is my birthday and I me feel horrible. I never had a girlfriend, I have only a few friends and I am a burden to everyone around me... And of course, I don't have a real job. That is it

 

[Deleted member 19276]

Happy Birthday! Count me into the jobless and girlfriend-less club as well.
I know it's very difficult to enjoy a birthday event when a person is feeling horrible, but please, try to find something that brings you peace.
If you feel like chatting, let me know as well.

 

[Deleted member 17949]

Happy birthday man! I know it sucks being a jobless guy with few friends and no relationships, but we can keep trying. Hope you have a good day.

 

[maru.]

Never had a girlfriend either, gonna be a jobless loser/a burden when i dropout of college, and i had kind of a panic attack on my birthday.
Jeez, you guys, we could start a club or something haha.
Jokes aside, just like @Vorty27 said, we're here if you need someone to talk to, and like @cryptic__egg said, we can keep trying, maybe things change, or not, idk.
All of that aside, Happy Birthday! :3

 

[Deleted member 19276]

Oh yeah, speaking of colleges... I simply quit mine, lol didn't even have the nerve to carry on right on my first year
@maru. Totally, the SS team as I like to joke at times! ^_^
But seriously, happy birthday man, don't let it consume you into darkness... I know how much it sucks...
Damn, now I wish we had a Discord group or something...
This community, despite it being about CTB, it still gives me a bit of hope. Maybe I have a messed up emotional cycle in my brain, idk at this point.

 

[deadgirlahsatan]

Happy Birthday!

I have 0 friends and jobless too.

 

[maru.]

I have only a few friends

few friends

I have 0

Btw, i'm noticing a very sad pattern, having friends is one of the few things in life that make it kinda worth it, the only thing worse than being miserable is being miserable and alone, so if any of you guys need to talk, you can always send a PM.

 

[Deleted member 17949]

Damn we really are all friendless over here. Feels bad man, I'll share my cookies with you all

 

[Brokenwithbpd]

happy birthday. My birthday is in 2 weeks. I know the feelings of hating your birthday and feeling so damn lonely.

 

[Quinlor]

thank you, if I could, I will hug everyone here

 

[Fullof pain]

Happy Birthday ! Try and do something just for you today ! BTW, there is a lot of good in you, we certainly all think so !

 

[socrates]

Happy Birthday! And people who feel like a burden rarely are. It's the people who are unaware who burden people.

Getting a girl friend these days isn't easy, it's not super easy getting a boyfriend either. If I can ever get Eros to give me any answers I'll get you know.

 

[KleinerWolf]

Happy birthday buddy!
It's okay to not feel your best self. Never stop trying.
At the same time, give yourself some credit if you can :)

 

[BrugmansiaFreak]

Hey, happy birthday dude! Today is also the birthday of a musician that I love, Arnaldo Baptista.
I know how you feel, I can relate with what you said... My birthday is 17th but I'm planning CTB before.
Have a good night! :)

 

[Woodnote]

Happy Birthday!
I have no friends and have never had a real boyfriend so I know how you feel.
I hope your day is at least tolerable.

 

[Sinai Silence]

Happy Birthday!

Same here on all counts but it's nothing to be ashamed of! We can be friends on here if you want

 

[LittleJem]

big happy birthday. I would also say try volunteering, it might change your life. I am speaking as someone whose depression is better currently- thanks to LSD. I think if someone said that to me when I was bedridden, I would not have agreed at all. I couldn't get out of bed. But if you can get out of bed, and walk down the street, and volunteer - then it could change your life. I have personally met many new friends through my religious community - you can choose your own, and not all of them need you to believe in God. You will find kind people and friends - don't give up - they are out there - and we are your friends here.