My best friends suicided today

[StellaArtoix]

Two of my best friends suicided today. I just cant believe it. It was so sad. They lost their little boy only a coupld of months ago to a rare heart condition. He was their only child and it was just too much for them. They both took massive ODs of various tranquilisers. I feel so incredibly sad right now. Ive only been home from the hospital for like an hour and I feel numb. I know they were both suffering but i could never have imagined that they would have done this. Their grief was just too much I guess. They doted on their little boy. He was the most gorgeous little kid too and his death was so sudden. They didnt even realise that he had a heart condition. They only found that out after he died.
I feel so lost right now.I dont know what to do.

 

[Lady black]

I feel with you. Hope your suffering will get better soon. I know something like this is hard.

 

[CarbonMonoxide]

I'm very sorry for your loss. I can't personally imagine your pain but as a parent, I can understand their decision. If my little girl died I don't know what I would do.

 

[StellaArtoix]

I feel with you. Hope your suffering will get better soon. I know something like this is hard.

Thnks that's really kind of you.

 

[Lady black]

Let´s all hope that they are together again with their boy, maybe this thought can give a little peace. What´s for sure is that they don´t have to miss him anymore now.

 

[StellaArtoix]

I'm very sorry for your loss. I can't personally imagine your pain but as a parent, I can understand their decision. If my little girl died I don't know what I would do.

They were heartbroken. I guess it was just more than they cud bare.

Let´s all hope that they are together again with their boy, maybe this thought can give a little peace. What´s for sure is that they don´t have to miss him anymore now.

Yeh I hope they're all together now.

 

[socrates]

Life can be cruel. Loosing your friends is so hard. They must have been in a lot of pain, lossing a child is one of the most painful experinces in the world. Be kind to your self, you must be in so much pain. I hope you can find some comfort soon.

 

[StellaArtoix]

Let´s all hope that they are together again with their boy, maybe this thought can give a little peace. What´s for sure is that they don´t have to miss him anymore now.

Yeh I hope they're all together now.

 

[Flump]

They are at peace now with their little boy, I'm so sorry for your loss ❤

 

[Jumper Geo]

Sorry it's must have been a real shock, I lost a friend 15 years ago he CTB by placing a hose from the exhaust into the window of his small van, that was a big shock for me and I remember thinking I would never do that and yet here I am on SS, lol. This reminded me of a similar case where the parents bodies were found at the bottom of Beachy Head and the rescuer saw a large holdall and when he opened it there was a body of a child who died earlier. So sad. RIP.

Suicide pact of the parents who lost precious son may have been made years before Beachy Head jump

Neil Puttick, 34, and his Tokyo-born wife Kazumi, 44, were found at the notorious suicide spot just days after the death of their son Samuel on May 29.

www.dailymail.co.uk

Cheers

Geo

 

[Passerby]

This is a moment where i very much hope there is life after death so all three can be reunited again pain free.

Thinking of you.

 

[inactive]

These stories are fucking horrific :(

 

[TeenIdle]

I'm sorry that's so sad :(
Stay strong

 

[Brokenwithbpd]

I am so sorry for your loss xoxo

 

[Deleted member 17949]

I can't even begin to imagine the crushing trauma of building up all the happiness of having a child only to have them snatched away by a rare disease. I sympathize with your friends and hope they are at peace. This must be a strain on you too. Please talk to people about your feelings where possible. Grief is best shared with others to ease the burden.

 

[VIBRITANNIA]

my condolences. please take care of yourself.

 

[Kornyboyo]

This is what kills me because when I CBT my family will be in shambles.

 

[Soul]

@StellaArtoix, I'm sorry you're dealing with this hard, painful thing. (((Hug)))

 

[StellaArtoix]

@StellaArtoix, I'm sorry you're dealing with this hard, painful thing. (((Hug)))

Thnks Soul. Thats really kind of you.

Sorry it's must have been a real shock, I lost a friend 15 years ago he CTB by placing a hose from the exhaust into the window of his small van, that was a big shock for me and I remember thinking I would never do that and yet here I am on SS, lol. This reminded me of a similar case where the parents bodies were found at the bottom of Beachy Head and the rescuer saw a large holdall and when he opened it there was a body of a child who died earlier. So sad. RIP.

Suicide pact of the parents who lost precious son may have been made years before Beachy Head jump

Neil Puttick, 34, and his Tokyo-born wife Kazumi, 44, were found at the notorious suicide spot just days after the death of their son Samuel on May 29.

www.dailymail.co.uk

Cheers

Geo

OMG I just read the article. Thats so sad. Thats exactly what it was like for my friends though. They could not imagine living life without their son. Everything they did was for him. If there is such a thing as heaven, thats what i hope for them, that they all reunite together there. I feel so selfish thinking about myself right now, but I feel so sad.

 

[Wisdom3_1-9]

I am so sorry for your loss. Having lost my best friend several years ago, I know how painful it can be to longer have your best friends in your life. I find comfort in this excerpt from The Book of Wisdom, chapter 3. I've adapted it to remove religious text.

But the souls of the righteous are [at rest], and no torment will ever touch them. In the eyes of the foolish they seemed to have died, and their departure was thought to be a disaster, and their going from us to be their destruction; but they are at peace.

 

[StellaArtoix]

I am so sorry for your loss. Having lost my best friend several years ago, I know how painful it can be to longer have your best friends in your life. I find comfort in this excerpt from The Book of Wisdom, chapter 3. I've adapted it to remove religious text.

I like that (especially without the religous input, thanks), I know their at peace now. That helps.

 

[Myforevercharlie]

I'm so sorry...

 

[XYZ]

I am sorry for your loss. One of the things I've learned is that being suicidal does not mean it's any easier for me when someone dies. The pain is raw and unlike anything else.