Mom discovered that im on this forum.

[Baskol1]

I have a big problem, my mom has discovered that im on this forum, and i still live with my parents. It could happen that she will call the cops on me again in the worst case, because i simply want to die. What should i do now? I dont want to end up in the psychiatric hospital again. She didnt call the cops now, but im afraid she will be doing that in the future, maybe tell it my dad, and then they will definitely call the cops. Im very scared of ending up in the psychiatric hospital again, and maybe never coming out again? Is it time to go, before they will call the cops again, or should i just wait?

 

[JoeFailure]

I wouldn't rush it for that if you're not ready. Is there any way you can spin it, and say this is more of a therapeutic forum where people support each other when they feel like that? Because in many ways it is anyway, it wouldn't really be a lie. You just don't have to say you're set on CTB if you are.

 

[Bagger]

Wait. Talk to her, extract info about what she thinks this site is, use incognito theme here, probe what she is going to do about it. If things go out of control you can ban yourself and leave, talk it out with parents and be back after some time. About CTB we are in no power to tell you what to do. It is your personal decision.

 

[Baskol1]

I wouldn't rush it for that if you're not ready. Is there any way you can spin it, and say this is more of a therapeutic forum where people support each other when they feel like that? Because in many ways it is anyway, it wouldn't really be a lie. You just don't have to say you're set on CTB if you are.

She couldnt read what i wrote, just the title.

Wait. Talk to her, extract info about what she thinks this site is, use incognito theme here, probe what she is going to do about it. If things go out of control you can ban yourself and leave, talk it out with parents and be back after some time. About CTB we are in no power to tell you what to do. It is your personal decision.

I will wait, she probably will not do anything. Otherwise she would have called the cops already.

 

[Bagger]

If privacy is your issue, then use incognito theme another time. Theme chooser is on the very bottom of the site.

 

[Baskol1]

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If privacy is your issue, then use incognito theme another time! Theme chooser is on the very bottom of the site.

Yes this is perfect. Ass i said, she will probably not do anything.

 

[LifeOver]

It seems like she has called the cops on you in the past, so there is a chance she will do it again. My advice to you is to make it seem as if you are temporary problem and not a long term one. If your parents ask you, make up an excuse such as, "I felt a little sad earlier because of <insert something here> but now I'm feeling better". Chances are your parents won't waste money sending you to the psychiatric hospital because you were momentarily down.

 

[Fr2]

I really liked the idea of presenting your feelings as temporary and this website as therapeutic.
It's very unsettling though, when a person has to hide things so important from people who are supposed to be there for him. Who are supposed to not send you in places that you're scared about.
And it's even more unsettling the fact that we're used to this as 'this is how it is'
@Baskol1 , sorry you have to live this.

If privacy is your issue, then use incognito theme another time.

I just switched to this theme (thanks for the tip), but can't see the difference, what are its advantages?

 

[Letmego. Please]

I really liked the idea of presenting your feelings as temporary and this website as therapeutic.
It's very unsettling though, when a person has to hide things so important from people who are supposed to be there for him. Who are supposed to not send you in places that you're scared about.
And it's even more unsettling the fact that we're used to this as 'this is how it is'
@Baskol1 , sorry you have to live this.


I just switched to this theme (thanks for the tip), but can't see the difference, what are its advantages?

Look at the banner at the top of the page> the one that shows what forum you are on, well cool lol

 

[Fr2]

Look at the banner at the top of the page> the one that shows what forum you are on, well cool lol

Thank you for the answer. I see that that is for the desktop version, the mobile one stays the same.
There is no banner at all with either theme, so maybe the incognito mode is not that necessary, but I thought at least something must be different since the option exists.

 

[puppy9]

Just tell her that you're a pro-lifer on a mission. Sorry if this offends anyone.

 

[Jessica5]

I have a big problem, my mom has discovered that im on this forum, and i still live with my parents. It could happen that she will call the cops on me again in the worst case, because i simply want to die. What should i do now? I dont want to end up in the psychiatric hospital again. She didnt call the cops now, but im afraid she will be doing that in the future, maybe tell it my dad, and then they will definitely call the cops. Im very scared of ending up in the psychiatric hospital again, and maybe never coming out again? Is it time to go, before they will call the cops again, or should i just wait?

You could pretend it's a forum that tries to talk people out of suicide.

 

[TAW122]

I would go with what others said here, try to present it as some sort of support forum for people who are feeling sad and depressed. Then explain that the forum has people who have recovered and found solace to continue living (after all there is a recovery subforum which should help bolster your claim). If in the worst case that police are called, let them know that you are not in any immediate danger nor have any plans or intentions to carry out suicide and my other suggestion is if in the psych ward (worst of all situations), say what they want to hear and make it a main goal to get out ASAP.

 

[Baskol1]

I would go with what others said here, try to present it as some sort of support forum for people who are feeling sad and depressed. Then explain that the forum has people who have recovered and found solace to continue living (after all there is a recovery subforum which should help bolster your claim). If in the worst case that police are called, let them know that you are not in any immediate danger nor have any plans or intentions to carry out suicide and my other suggestion is if in the psych ward (worst of all situations), say what they want to hear and make it a main goal to get out ASAP.

No my mother doesnt do anything, for now.