Discussion Messy bed

[squillykilly]

Been spilling things by accident on my bed a lot... Dr pepper, brie cheese, I just found melted chocolate that I must've dropped and that was the shameful thing that is making me wash my sheets tomorrow... It's such a hard task for me as my bed is my only place of comfort in this home and I'll have nothing to do to pass the time. What you want me to sit on the couch and watch youtube and draw instead of sit in my bed (it's the exact same) fuck you dude. I guess I just hate bing around my mum, she especially makes me feel disgusting...

 

[Sweet Tart]

I hear you. The bedroom is the only safe place for me in the house, too. My mom is about to kick me out because she thinks it's bad for me to always be in this room. Stupid fucking monster will never consider that her emotional abuse is why I'm always in here & being in this room isn't the problem.

Can you sit on your bed without the sheets while washing them? Or sit on a blanket? I may be misunderstanding, but I definitely get not wanting to be around your mum.

 

[InversedShadow]

Hopefully you fiind a way to avoid/minimize doing such things, I truly understand that it's a place of comfort for you, for me it used to be too during certain siituations in the past.
You shall strategize then, you don't have to put your food on the bed if you easily stain it or spill drinks, my family sometimes uses stools for that purpose, so we don't have to put things on the bed but just next to it! That's jjust a small advice for me, granted you might not have a stool at your house.. but still!