Men of Sanctioned Suicide If You Had A Micropenis Would You Kill Yourself Because Of It? Why Or Why Not And What Would You Do If You Chose To Live ?

[HermitLonerGuy]

I'm a bottom leaning switch. If I had a micropenis I'd probably just be a bottom. So wouldn't affect me that much.

unfortunately im straight.

 

[Banshee]

Personally, I would. Sex is important to me and regardless of what people say on the internet, most women do in fact care about penis size.

 

[freedomcalls]

I'm sorry if my comment is unwelcome as I'm a woman - but I just wanted to offer whatever small reassurance it is that or is size is literally the last important criteria by which I'd judge a man

I have been with men of varying sizes - including one too small to have penetrative sex. By the time I got to the point where I found that out, I was either invested emotionally (in which case there are lots of ways to connect physically / sexually) or not (in which case it is irrelevant anyway)

 

[Brew]

Personally, I would. Sex is important to me and regardless of what people say on the internet, most women do in fact care about penis size.

Because most men can't provide anything else past that; it's what is left for them.

unfortunately im straight.

You can still do it.
Even if it's cosmically hard for you to find someone who wouldn't mind your condition, as much as I hate to say this, you can still compensate in many ways being what somebody you'd like as a partner could want.


I personally would love to be an eunuch or to have an orchiectomy. I feel most men are too pushed to live by these standards of unsatisfiable sex makers, and when we are touch-starved for lack of better terms, this culture and our own biology ends up getting in the way of building legitimate relationships.

Sure hope you can still give great hugs to somebody you're attracted to without making it weird.

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

Personally, I would. Sex is important to me and regardless of what people say on the internet, most women do in fact care about penis size.

100% true, so its one of my reasons to ctb.

I'm sorry if my comment is unwelcome as I'm a woman - but I just wanted to offer whatever small reassurance it is that or is size is literally the last important criteria by which I'd judge a man

I have been with men of varying sizes - including one too small to have penetrative sex. By the time I got to the point where I found that out, I was either invested emotionally (in which case there are lots of ways to connect physically / sexually) or not (in which case it is irrelevant anyway)

no you are not unwelcome. thanks for giving me a little hope, its very good to hear things like this from a woman herself. Maybe i would find someone who could accept me. Thats cool and thank you.

I personally would love to be an eunuch or to have an orchiectomy. I feel most men are too pushed to live by these standards of unsatisfiable sex makers, and when we are touch-starved for lack of better terms, this culture and our own biology ends up getting in the way of building legitimate relationships.

really that very interesting, why would you willingly want to be a eunuch?

 

[SarRy]

I wouldn't end my life because of it. I guess if I wanted to be with a woman there would be ways to do that. Lesbians are a thing. Hell, there are ftm trans people with enlarged bits that are about the same size as a micro. Still, I'm probably not the right person to ask as sex isn't really a thing for me. Also, having small genitalia opens up a world of fashion and clothing styles. Like, in some regards, it could be fantastic to not have all that getting in the way.

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

I wouldn't end my life because of it. I guess if I wanted to be with a woman there would be ways to do that. Lesbians are a thing. Hell, there are ftm trans people with enlarged bits that are about the same size as a micro. Still, I'm probably not the right person to ask as sex isn't really a thing for me. Also, having small genitalia opens up a world of fashion and clothing styles. Like, in some regards, it could be fantastic to not have all that getting in the way.

i guess youre right and there are still ways of satisfying women and there are women who date ftm trans people so maybe theres some hope for me
on your point about clothing, i find that a problem.

i dont have a bulge, it points straight out like an acorn and it looks odd with a pokey lil nub.

I dont know what to do but i mostly isolate myself .

 

[Brew]

really that very interesting, why would you willingly want to be a eunuch?

I just really hate to feel like sex is the only thing that drives me to even speak to women, even when the best people I've met in my life were of the female sex.

I want to be driven by my upper head, not the lower. It's a constant fight of interests that doesn't even allow me to know what love is supposed to be to me.

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

I just really hate to feel like sex is the only thing that drives me to even speak to women, even when the best people I've met in my life were of the female sex.

I want to be driven by my upper head, not the lower. It's a constant fight of interests that doesn't even allow me to know what love is supposed to be to me.

you can control it and master it so your upper head rules.

 

[GettingOut]

Being hung doesn't make this world a better place or improve your circumstances any more than being wealthy guarantees you a happy life.

 

[Rocinante]

Yes

 

[LesbianCarpetPython]

I wouldn't matter to me tbh. I really don't care about penis size but if a woman really hates you for your penis size then she isn't worth having as a partner. A real one wouldn't care about it.

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

I wouldn't matter to me tbh. I really don't care about penis size but if a woman really hates you for your penis size then she isn't worth having as a partner. A real one wouldn't care about it.

i suppose so youre right ty.

Yes

ty so at least you cant blame me for being suicidal over it and can understand.

Being hung doesn't make this world a better place or improve your circumstances any more than being wealthy guarantees you a happy life.

agreed but id just love to feel like a normal man, even be average, have a bulge in my pants and not worry about rejections.

 

[LesbianCarpetPython]

You'd think having a big penis would make you happy but it isn't the case. I actually have a friend who has an 11 inch penis but they hate having one.

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

You'd think having a big penis would make you happy but it isn't the case. I actually have a friend who has an 11 inch penis but they hate having one.

not big, even average or normal small id go for but not what i have now.

 

[Brew]

You'd think having a big penis would make you happy but it isn't the case. I actually have a friend who has an 11 inch penis but they hate having one.

I KNEW IT!

 

[DeadButDreaming]

No, I would not commit suicide (because of that).

I'm going to lay down some truths. There is almost certainly a woman out there for you. The bad news is along the path to this woman you will encounter heartless or tactless women who will hurt you, intentionally or otherwise, because of your deficit. I think the sooner you make your peace with that the better.

The alternative is to live a life watching from the margins. I've spent large portions of my life this way. It's not really living. Fear is a bigger prison than undesirable dick size.

 

[DreamSurfer]

I am 6'4 decently looking guy from what I have been told, but am sized just slightly under average. It is one of the reasons that I will ctb. Regardless of being great with oral or great with foreplay, the harsh reality is that many women seem to want an above average sized guy.

Being tall and a skin shade perceived to be endowed, has only laid more pressure to just stay celibate unfortunately. Small penis syndrome is a real thing and can be crippling for men.

Men that aren't small can never understand. Yes, there is more to life than sex, but not having sex and being intimate with anyone can also be torture in itself.

 

[WorthlessTrash]

You'd think having a big penis would make you happy but it isn't the case. I actually have a friend who has an 11 inch penis but they hate having one.

Are they by any chance dysphoric? If that is the case, then that is completely independent to "Penis size". They would be unhappy regardless of the size, and isn't necessarily indicative of being able to be happy with proper equipment.

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

I am 6'4 decently looking guy from what I have been told, but am sized just slightly under average. It is one of the reasons that I will ctb. Regardless of being great with oral or great with foreplay, the harsh reality is that many women seem to want an above average sized guy.

Being tall and a skin shade perceived to be endowed, has only laid more pressure to just stay celibate unfortunately. Small penis syndrome is a real thing and can be crippling for men.

Men that aren't small can never understand. Yes, there is more to life than sex, but not having sex and being intimate with anyone can also be torture in itself.

i agree and experience the exact same thoughts as you brother except im not just slighlty under average, im extremly below average.

 

[LesbianCarpetPython]

Are they by any chance dysphoric? If that is the case, then that is completely independent to "Penis size". They would be unhappy regardless of the size, and isn't necessarily indicative of being able to be happy with proper equipment.

Yeah, they're trans but even before they discovered they're trans they hated it

 

[WorthlessTrash]

Yeah, they're trans but even before they discovered they're trans they hated it

Fair enough, but that is a lot different than the reason the OP hating their parts. Your friend likely subconsciously knew they were trans all along, which explains why they hated said parts. If they weren't trans, they'd more than likely be at the least neutral towards their body.

 

[Angst Filled Fuck Up]

I doubt it. I find it difficult to imagine a penis in any size being that important one way or another. But it occurred to me that perhaps because that's easy for me to say (I am above average).

Still, does it make any real difference to a person's life? It's not like I have women fawning over it, aside from the occasional compliment I've received. But again, it's no measure of a person's worth or value. I certainly don't attach any importance to it. It's possible I just take it for granted of course. However, at the end of the day, a dick is still just a dick.

Fwiw I am chronically ill and I'd happily take three inches off my johnson in order to lead a normal life. So it's all a matter of perspective, I suppose.

If you really are leading a marginalized existence because of your size then I do empathize. I do also acknowledge that micropenis territory can in fact make penetration itself difficult, self-esteem stuff notwithstanding.

With that said, you may well be able to grow a little with extenders/hanging etc. This can be a little dangerous and not worth the risk to some, but if you're careful you might see some progress.

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

you may well be able to grow a little with extenders/hanging etc.

oh ive for sure considered hanging, just not the type you're talking about. ( Sorry for morbid joke)

 

[WhatPowerIs]

I would kill myself over any deficit of the body. But I guess I am just weak willed since so many people have made peace with their deficits.

 

[DreamSurfer]

i agree and experience the exact same thoughts as you brother except im not just slighlty under average, im extremly below average.

Once you are below average, which average is already small to many women, it is just splitting hairs. I do believe that there is still some women out there that don't care as much as others, but it will be traumatizing trying to find them. You can't just ask those preferences.

I still hope that the universe kicks through the darkness for you, and you are able to find one of those women. You still deserve to feel happiness that others feel.

 

[Superdeterminist]

I would kill myself over any deficit of the body. But I guess I am just weak willed since so many people have made peace with their deficits.

People call acceptance a virtue in one scenario, but in another they'll call it weakness. My opinion is that it is never weakness to refuse to accept ugly realities. At worst, it's stubbornness. To me, acceptance of reality is what is cowardly and weak.

 

[WhatPowerIs]

People call acceptance a virtue in one scenario, but in another they'll call it weakness. My opinion is that it is never weakness to refuse to accept ugly realities. At worst, it's stubbornness. To me, acceptance of reality is what is cowardly and weak.

I agree

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

I would kill myself over any deficit of the body. But I guess I am just weak willed since so many people have made peace with their deficits.

no youre not weak willed and its completely understandable to not be happy with a defect, trust me i know.

 

[WhatPowerIs]

no youre not weak willed and its completely understandable to not be happy with a defect, trust me i know.

I don't have this particular deficit but I understand what it feels to have been born with traits that you feel are undesirable. It doesn't help that your trait is also listed as a medical condition or a bodily condition of some kind.