Ardesevent
It’s the end of the line, cowboy
- Feb 2, 2020
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In the U.S. especially, there always seems to be an idea floating around that you can be saved. It's showed up in a lot of media - a caring person reaches out their godlike hand to a suffering suicidal soul, and instantly cures them of all their suffering because they cared enough to listen. Having someone just be there and listen does sound like it would help a bit, but solving all of their problems? No.
The fact that this image is constantly pushed around means that both sides suffer from it. People who know suicidal people constantly think that if they hand them off to a good enough therapist, they'll just stop suffering. And the suicidal people themselves sometimes spend their whole lives wasting away, just continuing to live a life they hate more than anything, because they've had a delusion forced into their head that someone will appear and save them.
The fact that this image is constantly pushed around means that both sides suffer from it. People who know suicidal people constantly think that if they hand them off to a good enough therapist, they'll just stop suffering. And the suicidal people themselves sometimes spend their whole lives wasting away, just continuing to live a life they hate more than anything, because they've had a delusion forced into their head that someone will appear and save them.