Leaving a note?

[FairyAlys]

I wasn't going to leave a note but reading some people's thoughts on here, I have been reconsidering.
My two children. They're grown up and married, happy, successful, lovely people and very caring and loving. I don't think I can explain why but I don't want them blaming themselves as they couldn't have done anything more.

What do you think?

 

[Lady Euthanasia]

I was debating this question myself and settled on leaving a short but meaningful note so the person dear to me won't feel as if this was their fault... and I did do exactly that actually, but I had burnt it because I failed at the attempt and I absolutely do not want to risk any chance of them finding out the letter.

 

[CRM]

I don't plan on writing one myself, because I think that people will think whatever they want about me, regardless of what I say. And honestly, some of what they do hurts me and I can't really say that they're completely blameless, but I refuse to cause pain to others intentionally.

But if the people in your life are more understanding, I think that a simple note apologizing, assuring them it's not their fault, and/or saying that you love them would be good.

 

[raskolnikov]

No one did hear me when I was speaking to them, how can a few lines make the difference? Anyway it is and will be too late.

It's not a matter of hating anyone, I think it will be better for themselves that they will stay with their beliefs. It won't affect me anymore.

 

[Oyashiro-sama]

I do not think they will understand what I feel in a note.

 

[ThisIsTheEnd]

If I write a note, It'll just be a small thing to my family and friends saying that it is not their fault, they couldn't do anything, etc, etc.

 

[Over n' Out]

Just wite 'yes, it was suicide'
Makes it simple for coroner/cops to deal with.

 

[SamK]

I am going to be leaving notes and emails that will be sent out at particular date. I found a program online where you can writ n email to someone and choose the date in the next year they will send it on your behalf for free

I'm leaving notes for the innocent people who i know will genuinely miss me, to tell them i'm sorry, why i did it (to end my suffering) to reassure them it was not their fault and to remind them of my belief that we will meet again and tht i love them.

 

[SamK]

I also like the idea of leaving a letter for the coroner. I hope that will help speed up the process of a verdict of suicide over misadventure. I believe misadventure would hurt the family more, thinking it was an accident when in fact it's really been decided and planned out, it's suicide, my choice. nd not an accident that come about from me 'crying for help' .... hope that makes sense

Hope that helps

 

[Volatile]

My note will say "I put your name on a bullet so you'd be the last thing on my mind"

 

[Oblivion]

i will be leaving a note for sure so that no one blame themselves for this

 

[MissZombie]

The notes are not left for you, they are left for the ones that remain when you are not.

In general, most people are trash, they ignore you when you are alive or they do not value you enough. But then everyone will cry for you, even if they hated you.

Nobody has the right to decide for you. Only you, if you decide to end your life, should you decide if leaving a note is what you want or think will have value.
But, if there is someone that really matters to you. I think it would be good to say something to that person, unless you love her despite what you did, and that will always be the case.

 

[Nicoller]

When your family members call the police, the police keep the original letter. Your family gets a photo copy back. Hide your letters if you want your family to keep the original.