This is the issue: women think it's the same for both sexes. I have no doubt it's true for women but men are getting left on the shelf big time in this new Tinder-verse.
No, not all women have access to love and sex and to say that we do is simply a myth, signed an ugly, alone female.
What exactly is it that is being defined as sex?
Is it the simple act of a penis going into a vagina, or is it mutual experience where you body enjoy the body of the other person, someone who actually cares about your pleasure and you feel safe and loved?
When you strip the act of sex to the point where it's this clinical, cold, experience you have to ask, who would even want that? And who is anyone to criticise someone for not wanting that?
When people even think of female involuntary celibates it's always from the perspective that our experience is parallel to an incel who are perceived to be purely interested in sex and that by being their female counterpart so are we.
But we have to understand that sex is very different for women than it is men.
Men are nearly guaranteed to climax whereas it can be unenjoyable as a woman even when you're doing it with someone who loves and respects you let alone with someone that doesn't.
Many sexually active women haven't even experienced an orgasm.
Really, when people say any woman can get sex they actually mean, "you should be able to find at least one man that will be willing to stick their penis in you", which is extremely misogynistic.
It's quite telling that when a woman expresses her desire for love and reciprocal sex it's rebutted by the perspective of what men think and want.
If a woman is having sex with a man that she doesn't know it's unlikely that he'll know how to pleasure her or will even be successful in doing so, given that many men don't know *what* a clitoris is let alone *where* it is.
But no, I'm supposed to be content with the reality that I may get a man's penis hard enough to enter me.
And is that really a testament of anything?
"Men will fuck anything, even a sandwich",
And how is that supposed to make me feel, to compare my body which I see as a shrine, to various inanimate objects that men are willing to thrust their penis into in order to make themselves come?
"Men will even fuck animals."
Do you see me as an animal? Or am I a human being who deserves to feel love an affection?
Why does that have to be good enough for me? And who is anyone to decide that it is?
And who are these men that I can have sex with exactly?
Because legitimately, the only men a that have ever expressed interest in me are older men, many of whom were drunks/addicts and/or homeless.
I may be ugly but I'm clean and I put effort into my appearance. I'm not going to have sexual escapades with those types of men to prove a point to some arrogant stranger.
So yeah, a woman can get sex if she has next to no standards, doesn't care about whether or not she has an orgasm and doesn't mind being used as a human fleshlight, to some man who doesn't give a shit about her and is just using her to get off.
