It's funny how everyone can find a person to share your life but me

[Steamm]

and that ain't my biggest problem, but I f**king hate seeing people with less money and sh*t personality achieves that and I don't. Yeah, it's envy.

 

[Deleted member 1465]

Fair enough. I am envious too. I am alone, and though I've walked the path with others, I've always been alone really. I'd like not to be, but I've accepted it's my nature.

 

[ctbUniquectb]

There's that "everyone" word again

 

[SpanishLullaby]

All that glitters ain't gold. You may see couples happy together in public and they may be beating the *sh* out of each other behind closed doors. The divorce rate surely ain't 50%+ in the US because there are a bunch of couples living happily ever after.

Many who are suicidal may not be in the right mind state to choose a partner that best supports them in seeking their greatest path in life. Ask any couple and you will find that one has had to sacrifice for the other and most often its imbalanced sacrifice where the less dominant partner caters to the more dominant one.

Online relationships are not real. One only sees the good parts of the person's representative.

If you really want a partner focus on getting healthy and stable. Otherwise buy a good therapist and choose between a masturbation toy or a GREAT lover whom satisfies your immediate need to cuddle / f* then kick em out. ;-))

 

[MsMaudlin]

I'm alone!
A single parent to grotesque, fat and weird to be in a relationship with.
Do I care?
99% of the time no, but 1% of me craves the whole Mum, Dad, the kids and the dog thing.
❤

 

[Steamm]

there was a girl that I was in love with and she never gave a shit about me, after all she got a fucked up guy, ugly and poor as fuck, got her pregnant and left her, and now that she's screwed she talks to me. that's just one of the cases I've experienced of many during my 28 years old.

 

[Mr2005]

You'd be surprised how many people feel that way

 

[Jean4]

It took me until I was in my 50's to find Stan. It happens when you aren't looking or want it.

You are a wonderful person. I can tell by the way you write. My suggestion. Work on yourself. A relationship will come in time.

 

[noko]

I know someone that is extremely beautiful, a doctor, and great in every aspect. She's alone and she hates it. It's just about luck unfortunately.

 

[BPD Barbie]

Why have one person when you can have all of us

 

[LastRide]

and that ain't my biggest problem, but I f**king hate seeing people with less money and sh*t personality achieves that and I don't. Yeah, it's envy.

Not everyone ! I haven't got anyone either and I've given up now ! But I keep on seeing ugly dicks with no money or brain strutting around with beautiful women I just don't know how they do it...and they are not even nice to them and count themselves lucky !

 

[Notcutoutforlife]

I hear this!! I get asked how I'm a single a lot and get told I'm attractive, I don't believe it though and my self esteem is non existent. I try to see my appeal, I try to believe compliments but they don't see what I do and making a real connection with someone/anyone is nigh on impossible so no friends, an abusive "lover/ex/dickhead scum" who turns up when he wants something.

I want to work on myself, find a reason to like myself and get stronger but honestly I just struggle to see the point and it all just feels like a hell of a lot of work with no guarantees. I'm trying to decide if it's procrastination, laziness or just pure depression.

Apologies, talking about myself a lot there but just wanted you to know that mentally at least, you're not alone

 

[porfin1234]

Otherwise buy a good therapist and choose between a masturbation toy or a GREAT lover whom satisfies your immediate need to cuddle / f* then kick em out. ;-))

I know you were probably saying this partially in jest... but the idea of lover you can just sleep with cuddle and kick out I guess works for some who never have a chance of catching feelings. Otherwise you open yourself up for even more pain than a normal relationship with someone that can reciprocate feelings. I don't know how people can do casual. I tried especially due to high sex drive and still got attached or found myself wanting more. Wooops.

 

[AlreadyGone]

All that glitters ain't gold. You may see couples happy together in public and they may be beating the *sh* out of each other behind closed doors. The divorce rate surely ain't 50%+ in the US because there are a bunch of couples living happily ever after.

Many who are suicidal may not be in the right mind state to choose a partner that best supports them in seeking their greatest path in life. Ask any couple and you will find that one has had to sacrifice for the other and most often its imbalanced sacrifice where the less dominant partner caters to the more dominant one.

Online relationships are not real. One only sees the good parts of the person's representative.

If you really want a partner focus on getting healthy and stable. Otherwise buy a good therapist and choose between a masturbation toy or a GREAT lover whom satisfies your immediate need to cuddle / f* then kick em out. ;-))

This is entirely true and I completely agree, but there is a reason why people continue to seek out relationships regardless of the failure rate. Being with someone who cares about you and are interested in you breaks the mundane of everyday life. Sometimes it gives someone a reason to get out of bed in the morning and something to look forward to for the day. To be honest, it is a great feeling having someone reach out to you every day because they genuinely want to see or speak to you. It is a great feeling to share your hobbies and your life with someone else. So I can understand why people feel the way they do when they never get a chance to experience this.

 

[Deleted member 1465]

I never found anyone, though I had multiple attempts. Ironically, anyone I cared about enough to actually want to be with, I was reluctant to drag them into having to tolerate me. I've always accepted being alone and even come to relish it. But I'm still human, I still enjoy company.

 

[Sensei]

You'd be surprised how many people feel that way

Indeed. In my country, a survey showed that 10 % of the population don't have a single friend and that close to 60 % sometimes or often feel lonely, and almost 30 % of the latter group see it as a problem. People who are in the age group 18 to 35 feel the loneliest by far. Interestingly, these figures are lower than in most European countries. So, if you feel lonely, you're not alone, pun not intended.

 

[terry_a_davis]

I have no partner, haven't had for years. I accept this is because I am not making any efforts to get one and that even if I did I would have to improve myself to attract an attractive decent person as it's a competitive world. I don't hate or envy anyone else who has one. Good luck to them.

 

[BFishy]

I've come to the conclusion that I am not good enough to have a partner. I would love to ctb but I can't because I have a young daughter that loves me and I can't ruin her world. Now a few weeks ago when I was my lowest that didn't even matter. New meds took the edge off but now I am basically getting rejected/turned away from clinics because their waiting lists are so long.
It just supports my inner loathing and ruminating.

 

[sadgirl2002]

and that ain't my biggest problem, but I f**king hate seeing people with less money and sh*t personality achieves that and I don't. Yeah, it's envy.

I hate it as well, all the bad people get the good things in life and we have to suffer. It sucks, the situation is such that I can't even be with the one I love but I have hope. There are many couples who are together but they don't love each other and there are people who are in love but can't be together.

there was a girl that I was in love with and she never gave a shit about me, after all she got a fucked up guy, ugly and poor as fuck, got her pregnant and left her, and now that she's screwed she talks to me. that's just one of the cases I've experienced of many during my 28 years old.

That's terrible and she deserves it. Sorry if that's bad to say. It is such that some people only treat you as a second option or even a last resort. Both are equally as painful.

 

[Lostandfound7]

All that glitters ain't gold. You may see couples happy together in public and they may be beating the *sh* out of each other behind closed doors. The divorce rate surely ain't 50%+ in the US because there are a bunch of couples living happily ever after.

Many who are suicidal may not be in the right mind state to choose a partner that best supports them in seeking their greatest path in life. Ask any couple and you will find that one has had to sacrifice for the other and most often its imbalanced sacrifice where the less dominant partner caters to the more dominant one.

Online relationships are not real. One only sees the good parts of the person's representative.

If you really want a partner focus on getting healthy and stable. Otherwise buy a good therapist and choose between a masturbation toy or a GREAT lover whom satisfies your immediate need to cuddle / f* then kick em out. ;-))

FACTS

 

[Ghost2211]

Quite frankly knowing what I know now I would have rather been alone forever Rather than had love and experience the highs of it and it all crash down and leave me heartbroken.

Grass is always greener on the other side

 

[WOODESITY]

I've very shitty personality and I've achieved nothing, sometimes i think of other people but i know I'm not like others, i accept who I'm and then fuck everything else

 

[GiveUp]

and that ain't my biggest problem, but I f**king hate seeing people with less money and sh*t personality achieves that and I don't. Yeah, it's envy.

I feel *exactly* the same and made the same observations. I just dont get how life works.

 

[NotMeant2B]

Fair enough. I am envious too. I am alone, and though I've walked the path with others, I've always been alone really. I'd like not to be, but I've accepted it's my nature.

Oh, hey look, it's me.

Edit: Ah, fell for an old post. Godammit.

 

[s1mplem3]

I understand you. I'm always alone no matter what.