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Ah.ow
scared person
- Mar 12, 2024
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for most of my interests, i didn't find people who were sensitive to things like suicide. I don't mention painful topics usually, but 'just not bringing them up' doesn't help much, because even if I don't say the words or hint them, the ideas people have still feel conflicted with suicide. they ideas that insensitive people say, often would lead to dying or suicidality if followed. the examples often get long and painful to say, so instead of the unbeatable complication of not being sensitive to bad circumstances, i wonder if suicide sensitivity can help?
I read there is no place that's sensitive like here, so I am confused where else to ask
I can list my interests as I remember them (i can forget, because i can't participate with the overwhelm, even on forums), though also I worry listing them all together could be vulnerable and sad for me.
but it also seemed maybe likelier to be possible than a larger thing that'd take pressure off me, like everyone or many people posting their interests, if they also needed but couldn't find supportive people who didn't stigmatize them
is there a way to connect while not breaking site rules?
I thought I heard all the advice that was possible without being irl or personal, but I never know maybe
I wonder if people asked about this or about their interests that they need mentorly or peer help with?
(I'm trying to read archives as much as possible, but I worry it has been not fast, and there's alot to go, and I could be losing steam. so I try to ask too, despite being very afraid of redundancy and being comfortable usually only with finding existing threads. I've had confusion about how to find the questions I wonder. the result numbers that come up have overwhelmed me. sorry if my approach is bad. is there better ways?)
I read there is no place that's sensitive like here, so I am confused where else to ask
I can list my interests as I remember them (i can forget, because i can't participate with the overwhelm, even on forums), though also I worry listing them all together could be vulnerable and sad for me.
but it also seemed maybe likelier to be possible than a larger thing that'd take pressure off me, like everyone or many people posting their interests, if they also needed but couldn't find supportive people who didn't stigmatize them
is there a way to connect while not breaking site rules?
I thought I heard all the advice that was possible without being irl or personal, but I never know maybe
I wonder if people asked about this or about their interests that they need mentorly or peer help with?
(I'm trying to read archives as much as possible, but I worry it has been not fast, and there's alot to go, and I could be losing steam. so I try to ask too, despite being very afraid of redundancy and being comfortable usually only with finding existing threads. I've had confusion about how to find the questions I wonder. the result numbers that come up have overwhelmed me. sorry if my approach is bad. is there better ways?)
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