Hey OP, just a thought. If you are from a poor country with awful healthcare, or you could move to one, your AIDS will definitely get worse, as you will have few options to get the cure, will be too expensive and scarce in such a country. Here I am assuming of course, that going throught that process will not stop your desire to go.
There are specific bug-chasing options in gay webchats/communities but memory of their names escapes me. In any case, the gay community is well aware of bug chasing, and some of them are sympathetic to people who want their route this way, even if not gay.
Just goes on to show you we and them share the same enemy twice - pro-lifers and religious.