• Hey Guest,

    We wanted to share a quick update with the community.

    Our public expense ledger is now live, allowing anyone to see how donations are used to support the ongoing operation of the site.

    👉 View the ledger here

    Over the past year, increased regulatory pressure in multiple regions like UK OFCOM and Australia's eSafety has led to higher operational costs, including infrastructure, security, and the need to work with more specialized service providers to keep the site online and stable.

    If you value the community and would like to help support its continued operation, donations are greatly appreciated. If you wish to donate via Bank Transfer or other options, please open a ticket.

    Donate via cryptocurrency:

    Bitcoin (BTC):
    Ethereum (ETH):
    Monero (XMR):
darksoul999

darksoul999

Ready To Enter The Real World
Aug 23, 2026
77
A few days ago i could not even connect.

As of now its super slow loading pages. Could just be me but wanted to check thanks.
 
  • Like
  • Hugs
Reactions: darksouls, sadbh—itstimetogo🤎, Carrot and 2 others
uzl lover

uzl lover

he/him
Aug 22, 2025
28
The website is slow for me as well, takes like two minutes to load a page.
 
  • Like
  • Hugs
Reactions: darksouls, Zyntkalla, Praestat_Mori and 1 other person
Spite

Spite

I wish I never existed.
Aug 20, 2025
700
Probably being DDOS'd. Again... 🙄
 
  • Like
  • Love
  • Hugs
Reactions: darksouls, LastNite, Praestat_Mori and 2 others
Ludath

Ludath

All the help in the world couldn’t save me
Sep 7, 2026
54
Yeah, it's been pretty slow for awhile now sadly. Don't worry. Happens.
 
  • Like
  • Hugs
Reactions: darksouls, Zyntkalla, Praestat_Mori and 1 other person
diospyros.kaki

diospyros.kaki

not here for a good time either
Oct 21, 2025
15
yes, it's taking a few tries to load any page
 
  • Like
  • Hugs
Reactions: darksouls, Praestat_Mori and darksoul999
LastNite

LastNite

I don't know
Mar 31, 2025
1,010
likely a DDoS attack
 
  • Hugs
  • Like
Reactions: darksouls and sadbh—itstimetogo🤎
Zyntkalla

Zyntkalla

Welcome to hell on Earth
Aug 28, 2020
242
It does do it at times. I can't fully say it's the site but it seems to happen here for other people here. I find it only happens to me when my phone is getting older usually a few months after my battery starts to go.
 
Last edited:
  • Hugs
Reactions: darksouls
Macedonian1987

Macedonian1987

Just a sad guy from Macedonia.
Oct 22, 2025
1,392
The forum was quite slow yesterday, but now everything is fine.
 
  • Hugs
Reactions: darksouls
Somewhat Suicidal

Somewhat Suicidal

surviving in anhedonia =/= living
Aug 26, 2026
235
Had it too last week. At one point it was entirely down for like half a day (cloudflare 503 error)
 
N

nothere17

Member
Jun 24, 2026
20
Yeah, its kinda slow for me as well. Maybe there is a lot of new traffic that is making things go slow ?
 
Somewhat Suicidal

Somewhat Suicidal

surviving in anhedonia =/= living
Aug 26, 2026
235
Yeah, its kinda slow for me as well. Maybe there is a lot of new traffic that is making things go slow ?
It's almost certainly server problems at times or some DDoS attack when it's terribly slow or down.
 

Similar threads

CrowsFeather
Replies
9
Views
471
Suicide Discussion
CrowsFeather
CrowsFeather
pharma
Replies
1
Views
204
Suicide Discussion
cantthinkofusername
cantthinkofusername
komakun
Replies
12
Views
412
Suicide Discussion
scoba32
S
L
Replies
2
Views
262
Suicide Discussion
DeathSweetDeath
DeathSweetDeath
K
Replies
0
Views
87
Suicide Discussion
knuffle
K