But why do you love her? You were never even in a relationship with her? Or were you?
I am confused. Do you mean you were simply attracted to her? Did you even truly know her? Do you want to ctb all because of this one girl or because there are reasons you don't think you can try with someone else? Think about the reasons you even like her, why is someone who rejected you worth your life? What was your life like before you even knew she existed?
You sound awful young. I feel like there is more going on here, yes, everyone has the right to die and is affected by things in different ways, but personally I would not take my life because of another person alone. They can certainly contribute to the torture but they will never be the sole reason, it would have to be-and is-an unfixable, on-going reason to do with my own being. Even though it's not my fault, it's still my own personal contentment and happiness that needs to thrive before anything else can. So is there perhaps more going on with you, or your life situation that makes you more vulnerable and fragile to being rejected? I understand not being able to bounce back from the hits life gives when there is nothing else to lean back on. If you don't have other basic things sorted out within yourself and your everyday life, family life, etc then any other endeavor you seek or any other relationship you attempt to create will be built on shaky ground. You do not want to end up THAT dependent on someone and live on the fence your whole life, waiting with bated breath, to feel any worth only at one other person's behest.
I have had family members and friends treat me like utter garbage yet throw themselves down to their knees when an SO walks into the picture, even just a potential one. I witness the obsession and how it spits in the face of every other relationship the person has and even the individuality of the person I know. And yea, considering what I've had to deal with in my life..if someone I knew killed themselves over an SO, I would be pissed. Not even sad, just pissed. Especially when life has been so good to them compared to me. But I have a feeling that's not the case for you..or am I wrong? Because I still don't think I know anyone with any amount of privilege or pleasantry in their life who would say "it's her or bust" in regards to killing themselves. That's an awfully narrow and severe thought process without any other context...?
I am not going to tell you being rejected, in any form, is easy. It's not. You may always remember it, even if one day your life is on track and you are in a relationship with someone else, the pain of rejection or any trauma can still come back to haunt you. This is not even uncommon, and it will hurt more the younger you are and the less affirmative responses you have to dilute the rejections with. But think about what's really going on here, what are the other factors at play causing you to beeline only for this girl and stake your life on her answer to you? Why is it you cannot try to ask anyone else in the future? It seems futile to keep asking someone who already rejected you, almost like you are just looking for the final straw to be done with a life that probably has more shit going on than just some girl.
Your problem begins when you start labeling someone as a "very high value woman".