is it possible for 2 suicidal people to meet and like each other that they drop the plan to CTB ?

[UKscotty]

That would be a very toxic relationship, both parties would get even more messed up.

 

[enditplz]

I guess it's possible if both people wanted to ctb because of a lack of a relationship. But in that case, I'd imagine it wouldn't last and they'd relapse eventually.

 

[rifle]

long answer: I've been hanging out in communities full of suicidal ppl for some time now, and in my experience, the relationship you describe is a double edged sword.
PROS:
you understand each other and agree on such a fundamental matter, yay! you may be the best person to help each other because of that!!
CONS:
A. you actually probably only encourage each other's suicidal ideation, maybe that's why you even sought out the relationship in the first place;
B. what do you even have in common outside of your shared illness/philosophy/trauma? these things are huge and not necessary a bad basis for a relationship, but it's not something you would live for;
C. even if they're a great person whom you love very much, how does it get rid of your reasons to kys? in this forum there are countless ppl who have loved ones who don't want to see them go, and yet they are still here and just full of guilt;
D. assuming it worked: you both want to live and decide to recover. great!! now you have to navigate the minefield that is: trying to help each other without triggering each other and without censoring/silencing the topic entirely. good luck on that one! no, seriously, good luck;
E. assuming it worked: what if you have a falling out? what if you fight, or break up? will you decide to kys again? are they aware of that? being someone's sole reason for living is a horrible, soul-crushing burden and a basis for very unhealthy relationship and miserable existence for both parties.

short answer: theoretically, maybe yes, I don't think it's impossible. several very important conditions must be met, though.

 

[Moonomyth]

Snake, can love bloom at the bus stop?

 

[qiuyu]

i dont think the relationship will work long term. cus when you are having a good day the person is hurt and someone you really care about. on a bad day the person is emotionally super demanding and always bitching. attraction wears out pretty soon with suicidal thoughts in the picture or just negative mindset in general. plus when everything doesnt work out they'll just feel worse about themselves and lose hope

 

[livingdeadgrl]

Wtf like mm was abused after death probably? I didn't even imagine a thing like that OMG so twisted

yeah right? And that made me think like this might happens a lot, in her case she was famous but who knows if funeral homes check or have control of corpse abuse with other people? If you google it have some news addressing this topic but I'm pretty sure the research is not deep enough, people don't care about others even when they're alive.
whatever sorry to bring this morbid weird subject out with such a sweet thread, since I had this thought is living rent-free in my mind

 

[locked*n*loaded]

and anyway from what I'm aware relationships just cause people to suffer even more

Good relationships cause people to THRIVE in life.

 

[Ghostofthepast]

Possible sure could it work sure anything is possible will it I'm pretty sure no sadly

 

[gar3z]

Probably would not work, but CTB together sounds reasonable.

 

[stermc]

I think dragging the other person down is more likely

 

[RUPA]

Anything is possible in the world. The question is, is it probable? and more importantly, it will last strong and long enough for both to drop the ctb plan permanently?

 

[The Abyss]

Sounds like a movie to me, dying to live starring...