basically title. GF is only stable because of me. im depressed and suicidal... she is stable. if i killmyself, sooner or later she will also do the same as she will fall back into depression.
I love my family and they will be broken also, but my gf is my priority rn.
@WildAtHeart This relationship is not healthy. No couple should depend on each other for living because the choice to live and see beauty in life is something a person has to do within themselves.
It's not your responsibility to "save" your girlfriend and keep her stable. I am sorry but your girlfriend has serious issues and she needs help relying on you for stability is not healthy.
Let's stay you broke up with her she will most likely kill herself. Even if you don't kill yourself there is still a chance she will kill herself if the relationship breaks down know so way.
That's something only you can discern. Living for your girlfriend isn't a bad thing.
@TragedyBornCrimson Relationships can break down at any time whereas family is for life. You can always get a new partner but you will always have 1 mother and bonds between siblings can never be replaced.
People should live for their children if they have any or family members who seriously depend on them ie your a breadwinner, carer of a disabled parent or family member etc.
Living for a girlfriend or boyfriend is never a good idea because they can leave you at any time.
