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anyone suffering or suffered form ED, and considering suicide form ED?
 
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Have you tried to get the medicine ? They do work but you must be careful of the side effects as some can be bad and even deadly.

the medicine is available by prescription and there is a solid OTC black market in most countries. Since the drug is not a priority for the authorities it's easy to get ahold of just about anywhere
 
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Catching flight soon.....bus is too slow
Sep 28, 2018
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Have you tried to get the medicine ? They do work but you must be careful of the side effects as some can be bad and even deadly.

the medicine is available by prescription and there is a solid OTC black market in most countries. Since the drug is not a priority for the authorities it's easy to get ahold of just about anywhere
Thanks for suggesting, but I don't really want to go for any kind of medication, it should be naturally cured or just death is solution. Actually I used to masturabte since last 15 years and now everything just ended. I have no relationship no friend. I used to be in my erotic fantacy world all the time. I am now sick of everything. So done want to get cured.
 
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If you are having trouble getting the penis up because of depression, erectile dysfunction meds will not work. To provide a brief summary of how they work

- you are looking at something you normally would find erotic , like a naked woman, and you aren't getting an erection at least somewhat , the ED med will not work

- you are fucking the woman but you have trouble staying fully stiff, this is where the ED med will help

It only helps with the physical process of the erection. Just by taking it does not cause a boner . If you have depression or other issues lowering the sex drive it won't help :(
 
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Leo

Catching flight soon.....bus is too slow
Sep 28, 2018
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If you are having trouble getting the penis up because of depression, erectile dysfunction meds will not work. To provide a brief summary of how they work

- you are looking at something you normally would find erotic , like a naked woman, and you aren't getting an erection at least somewhat , the ED med will not work

- you are fucking the woman but you have trouble staying fully stiff, this is where the ED med will hell

It only helps with the physical process of the erection. Just by taking it does not cause a boner . If you have depression or other issues lowering the sex drive it won't help :(
Yes I think I'm in deep deprrssion.
 
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TheFifthDay

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Jan 30, 2021
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If you want some ways to help besides abstinence to get your drive back, consider some anti inflammatory and circulation improving foods. Turmeric is a clinically studied powerful anti inflammatory, and clove oil has been traditionally used as a circulation booster and aphrodisiac for millennia. A more synthetic approach is I think it's a daily arginine supplement because one of its effects is that it can raise nitrous levels in the body, the same stuff that regulates blood flow, if there's a shortage of nitrous (I'm no doctor I heavily advise doing research). But ultimately a lot of this stuff can't really help much if you have no sex drive in the first place. The clove still helps tho but it's like a little push to set the mood and lift you up
 
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Pharmaruined

Nobody gets out alive
Sep 10, 2020
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anyone suffering or suffered form ED, and considering suicide form ED?
Yea man... Propecia/hair loss drugs are the devil.. that's what got me

The only thing that helps me is working out . Jogging a mile at least and then hitting the weights.. every other day.. and even this takes a bit for endorphins annd drive to build up. The Lockdowns really hurt me,. So thankful I found a real gym thats saying gfy to the governor.

I've spent TONS of cash on herbs, tests, treatments.. frequency, ozone. Drugs , Testosterone etc.. it helps, but nothing sticks.. I stopped masturbating for awhile and quit porn.. that helps a bit but can go thru long periods of even more numbness and emptiness
 
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Yea man... Propecia/hair loss drugs are the devil.. that's what got me

The only thing that helps me is working out . Jogging a mile at least and then hitting the weights.. every other day.. and even this takes a bit for endorphins annd drive to build up. The Lockdowns really hurt me,. So thankful I found a real gym thats saying gfy to the governor.

I've spent TONS of cash on herbs, tests, treatments.. frequency, ozone. Drugs , Testosterone etc.. it helps, but nothing sticks.. I stopped masturbating for awhile and quit porn.. that helps a bit but can go thru long periods of even more numbness and emptiness
I can feel you bro. I am at this point completely dead inside. I will try to workout for few days if I see some change. I also read that ED can cause of prostate cancer also, which really fucks me up.
 
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Pharmaruined

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I can feel you bro. I am at this point completely dead inside. I will try to workout for few days if I see some change. I also read that ED can cause of prostate cancer also, which really fucks me up.
Don't stress about that.. prostate issues come more with age.. and it's actually an estrogen dht imbalance again, age related.

.there are no Bandaids or pill popping solutions

just stay in the gym.. and put in the work.. the only way out is through it..
 
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booray

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Jan 28, 2021
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So deeply depressed and get so little joy out of life that sex is the farthest thing from my mind these days. Besides, the quest for sex is what drove me to become a tweaker, and that's what ultimately ruined my life and the reason I now want to ctb. Ain't nobody got time for dat no more!
 
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Rünomai

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Before you go, why not try to fix your problem?

PEGym is a great website for practicing penile betterment; I can vouch for the tactics shared on the site's forums. Also, if you're interested in penis enlargement -- yes, enlargement -- they have a bunch of stuff for that as well. Moreover, for veracity, I'd like to elaborate on my reason for my earnestly believing in the site: Over the course of about 3 years, along with hefty hiatuses, I have attained a pretty decent size, of which resides in the 99.9th percentile. Unfortunately, because I started when I was about 14, I can't candidly say that my transmogrification from slightly above average to very large was a result of PE. Who knows, maybe the exercises have more efficacy on pubescent males.

Regardless, I'd look at that site.


(I feel like this post is awkward, but I'm posting it anyway.)
 
UterEntonaur

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Aug 17, 2020
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Yes I think I'm in deep deprrssion.
This. This sounds like the cause. If everything was suddenly fine, and then you developed problems, it sounds like you don't have a physical problem.

When the covid lockdown first started here (march 2020), I felt completely numb being stuck indoors all the time, and my sex drive just vanished and I had ED. Once lockdown was lifted for a bit and I could go out and see "people" again, everything just returned to normal, but the ED returned again when lockdown 2.0 happened. I just assumed it was like being a teenager again, where your anxiety or nerves get the better of you cos you're over-thinking/worrying about something else, and you can't perform.

If you're going through something similar, then at least you know it's not a physical problem, you just gotta work out what's causing it emotionally/mentally and start from there.

EDIT: When I thought my ED was a physical problem, I tried Viagra Connect (50mg sildenafil) because you can buy it without a prescription here, but it didn't work (just gave me blue smurf vision). Then the pharmacy guy told me it won't help with anxiety/nerves/mental/emotional ED.
 
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This. This sounds like the cause. If everything was suddenly fine, and then you developed problems, it sounds like you don't have a physical problem.

When the covid lockdown first started here (march 2020), I felt completely numb being stuck indoors all the time, and my sex drive just vanished and I had ED. Once lockdown was lifted for a bit and I could go out and see "people" again, everything just returned to normal, but the ED returned again when lockdown 2.0 happened. I just assumed it was like being a teenager again, where your anxiety or nerves get the better of you cos you're over-thinking/worrying about something else, and you can't perform.

If you're going through something similar, then at least you know it's not a physical problem, you just gotta work out what's causing it emotionally/mentally and start from there.

EDIT: When I thought my ED was a physical problem, I tried Viagra Connect (50mg sildenafil) because you can buy it without a prescription here, but it didn't work (just gave me blue smurf vision). Then the pharmacy guy told me it won't help with anxiety/nerves/mental/emotional ED.
I have masturbation and porn addiction sfrom more than 15+ years. U had any such habits? I think my problem is because of low T leves I thik. Excessive masturbation.
 
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I have masturbation and porn addiction sfrom more than 15+ years. U had any such habits? I think my problem is because of low T leves I thik. Excessive masturbation.
There's nothing wrong with masturbation (which is why I think NoFap is pointless), and I don't think you can do it excessively, but excessive porn+masturbation isn't a good thing because porn addiction/ED is very real.

I'm just speaking from my personal experience from 6+ years ago, but watching too much porn and masturbating left me craving more and more erotic images/videos, to the point where browsing porn sites and looking at all the films just didn't do anything for me anymore (I assume I'd become desensitised to the images/videos).

The way I "reset" myself was to abstain from porn, and get back to the point where my imagination was enough to make me aroused, which I think is the normal/natural way in my opinion (erotic stories like those on Literotica helped me to do this). Eventually, I could close my eyes and picture my favourite scenario with whoever I fancied at the time, and that was enough to become instantly erect. So obviously, when I'd meet someone in real life, simply kissing them was enough for me to get turned on, because it was way more than just imagining. In a weird way, my desires are now dependant on physical people I'm attracted to, which is why my sex drive vanishes when I'm stuck indoors, like right now during lockdown.

I hope my post gave you some ideas or insights, but essentially you need to find out what works for you, and even though it won't happen/work straight away.... stick with it friend. You'll get there eventually :hug:
 
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Yeah I have it from Risperidone but also there is no satisfaction or relief when I did get a stiffy, I went to the doctor to get a testosterone test came back normal took a range supplements and minerals but sod all works, I have bought some Sildenafil Viagra I started at 100mg and had a terrible headache every day for a month so dropped down to 50mg.

Other treatments I tried, Garlic with a super high quantity of allicin.

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Geo
 
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Sep 28, 2018
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Yeah I have it from Risperidone but also there is no satisfaction or relief when I did get a stiffy, I went to the doctor to get a testosterone test came back normal took a range supplements and minerals but sod all works, I have bought some Sildenafil Viagra I started at 100mg and had a terrible headache every day for a month so dropped down to 50mg.

Other treatments I tried, Garlic with a super high quantity of allicin.

Cheers

Geo
I havent visited doctor yet, I'm suffering sice 1 month no sensation and ED, i never take any midications that's why don't want to visit doctor. I don't know if it cures naturally. I will wait for few weeks to see what happens.
 
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I havent visited doctor yet, I'm suffering sice 1 month no sensation and ED, i never take any midications that's why don't want to visit doctor. I don't know if it cures naturally. I will wait for few weeks to see what happens.

Your first step should be the doctor to get a blood test, don't wait do it ASAP it could give you some pleasure back in life. I waited and tried all different cures as I thought it was embarrassing but I thought sod it and went to the doctor and she sent me to the hospital for tests. Then you can get drugs, lol. but check the side effects as it could make you worse.

I hope it's nothing serious.

Cheers

Geo
 
Amumu

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Yes I have ED too and it's affecting me
 
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WornOutLife

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I don't have that problem but let's say there was a time in which it was impossible for me to have an erection if I was wearing condoms.
That made me really depressed because whenever I date a girl, it was very hard to have sex.

Then, I realized it was all psychological and got over it but I thought more than once: "Should I kill because of this?" and my answer was "No way. I'll just masturbate or don't have sex anymore and that's it."

I can live without sex. The thing is, I can't live without a stable mind! Really need that.
 
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Think I'm gonna try searching for a natural remedy for that... likely herbs.

Edit: Take a look at this.
 
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needaplan

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Jan 31, 2020
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Yea man... Propecia/hair loss drugs are the devil.. that's what got me

The only thing that helps me is working out . Jogging a mile at least and then hitting the weights.. every other day.. and even this takes a bit for endorphins annd drive to build up. The Lockdowns really hurt me,. So thankful I found a real gym thats saying gfy to the governor.

I've spent TONS of cash on herbs, tests, treatments.. frequency, ozone. Drugs , Testosterone etc.. it helps, but nothing sticks.. I stopped masturbating for awhile and quit porn.. that helps a bit but can go thru long periods of even more numbness and emptiness
I heard about problems caused by that stuff. What I asked myself was if they put heavy chemicals in there and if this can be cured or improved with detox
 
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Pharmaruined

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I heard about problems caused by that stuff. What I asked myself was if they put heavy chemicals in there and if this can be cured or improved with detox

I do have a metal problem, but I've chelated quite a bit.. I'm on a mineral balancing program and have dumped a ton of aluminum.. it cleared up my chronic fatigue and aches and joint pain.. but the drug for some reason blocks too much dht and breaks the conversion of many processes downstream.. so even replacing dht or testosterone for example does nothing.. it's as if the body doesn't know what to do with it . It's truly a devils drug.. literally breaks you.. and then everything stops working, gut, nervous system, immune. Detox pathways Etc etc

working out is the only thing that helps nudge my system to start working right.. I've tried EVERYTHING else..
 
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needaplan

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I do have a metal problem, but I've chelated quite a bit.. I'm on a mineral balancing program and have dumped a ton of aluminum.. it cleared up my chronic fatigue and aches and joint pain.. but the drug for some reason blocks too much dht and breaks the conversion of many processes downstream.. so even replacing dht or testosterone for example does nothing.. it's as if the body doesn't know what to do with it . It's truly a devils drug.. literally breaks you.. and then everything stops working, gut, nervous system, immune. Detox pathways Etc etc

working out is the only thing that helps nudge my system to start working right.. I've tried EVERYTHING else..
that is disturbing and I hope you find a way! I heard that sulfur can help with detox, maybe some bath, where like evey bodypart is in water or a detox mask for the particular bodyparts, I even read that f.e. the hair in the region safes hormons in it. Maybe a professional alternative practicioner can try to extract "bad" blood above the region to create a flow. Just some thaughts. Good luck!
 
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