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My opinion as one who suffers from severe depression still at 57 years old, is when you are have a desire to die that young your brain is fundamentally broken and most likely not fixable. However my depression didn't start until young adulthood with some years of remission on meds.


 
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May 10, 2025
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🕊️ Iris, peace and love to you
 
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LittleJem

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Good God. Bless their hearts, all of them.

My opinion: these are the loving parents that all of us would ideally be blessed with, that respect our wishes. The fact she tried K and ECT and had those neurological conditions, this was the humane decision.
 
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Aug 24, 2024
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Good God. Bless their hearts, all of them.

My opinion: these are the loving parents that all of us would ideally be blessed with, that respect our wishes. The fact she tried K and ECT and had those neurological conditions, this was the humane decision.
They should have approved euthanasia for her as the outcome would have been the same. But instead she had to have a drawn out process as her parents watched her wither away.
 
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urgent

Why do I have to suffer unbearably! HELP PLEASE!
Dec 6, 2025
351
They should have approved euthanasia for her as the outcome would have been the same. But instead she had to have a drawn out process as her parents watched her wither away.
Exactly. It doesn't say how long it took. I don't have support for VSED and no one wants to give palliative sedation for it in the US from what I see. I'm in so much excruciating pain I wish I could end it now. I have seen some VSEDs take over a month, one was 42 days. That is a horrible way to go. I'm glad they supported her and let her be completely sedated. It would be so much easier for everyone if she got euthanasia. I wish I was in a country with it.
 
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Passenger4224

I appreciate everything that can kill me.
Mar 8, 2026
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After reading this I was filled with so much emotion.

I feel so sad for her parents to see her go in such a horrible way. But they seem like such wonderful people to be able to understand their daughter just wanted to stop suffering.

I am grateful there are people that actually understand Iris's decision, and glad she was able to get what she wished for (even though I'm a little jealous!)

Thank you for sharing this!!!
 
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Echo

Hell is empty and all the devils are here
Dec 1, 2022
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Her parents loved her unconditionally, to let her go be at peace.
She tried various treatments aswell.
 
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Aug 26, 2025
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You can really feel the author's opinion on all of this in the article 🫠
 
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Jul 9, 2025
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This is heartbreaking. But why did they offer her only VSED ? It's one of the worst method (according PPH). We give N to our pets to die peacefully, it drives me crazy to let humans suffer like this... I hope she's at peace now 🕊️
 
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SASU-KE

How I get up when I hear the alarm ↑
Nov 26, 2025
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How could they have approved her death by starvation? Is this some kind of a joke?

Such a clown world.
 
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tooafraidtodiez

Will CTB before my favorite show ends
Apr 29, 2026
315
May she be at peace. It's sad knowing she had to go this way, but that's just how the world work sometimes.