Im trans, what should i do

[Druggy423]

I'm trans mtf, I pass as male, I live in the states, and I am incredibly scared for the future. I want to move to Canada, but I'll never be able to afford that. I'm thinking about moving to Oregon, but that'll be expensive too. Sometimes I feel the only way ill ever pass as female is I ctb and am reincarnated as a woman. But if I kill myself, then I might go to hell, and if reincarnation is the truth, then I'll be born as a frog or something. I don't know what to do, please help.

 

[platypusfan]

Hi, I am trans ftm and I live in the states. I understand these feelings, sometimes passing feels impossible without literally dying and being reborn, but I believe there should still be hope. Don't ctb yet if you're questioning these things, there is still hope in moving to a better state and finding the best gender affirming care, I hope you can find wealth to afford these things. Of course it is still up to you. I am wishing you the best.

 

[fuzzy-clown]

Take your time and work out what it takes for you to successfully move to Oregon or Canada. It might take a few years but you can handle it.

 

[h4yate]

since you seem super super unsure, short answer is dont do it yet. wishing you the best to move some place better and live your life the way you want.

 

[synthcadia]

do not ctb yet. try to move to a gender-affirming safe place, or somewhere that is more accepting. places up north are better, and then you can plan from there.

it's really scary, and it's terrifying watching america become this dystopia. but i pray it will get better.

you are incredibly strong. i believe in you. stay safe out there.

 

[Druggy423]

Hi, I am trans ftm and I live in the states. I understand these feelings, sometimes passing feels impossible without literally dying and being reborn, but I believe there should still be hope. Don't ctb yet if you're questioning these things, there is still hope in moving to a better state and finding the best gender affirming care, I hope you can find wealth to afford these things. Of course it is still up to you. I am wishing you the best.

Thank you.

 

[Sweet Tart]

I hate what is happening in our country so much and want to support my trans family. There are so many people migrating or planning/thinking about moving away from states with transphobic laws or mentality.

I wonder if there are informal networks for helping transpeople escape from red states- either online or thru LGBTQ+ community centers in areas that support the rights of trans people? It's a crisis affecting so many people, I am just too isolated and out of touch to have any info these days.

 

[yellowroses]

I'm trans as well (ftm), I know its scary right now, but keep in mind how far we've come. They may push through some fucked up laws, but we as a community aren't ever going back to living in the shadows. I promise you, living as your authentic self is worth all the uncertainty and fear. I can also tell you, you don't have have to worry about Hell or any kind of divine punishment, you are exactly what you're meant to be, the people who say otherwise speak only from a place of hatred. Sending love, and hope you can find a community that can give you the support you need

 

[R.E.N.]

To be honest, with CTB, there is no losing. There also may be no winning or other either as such ambitions may become meaningless in the next life. Reincarnation is probable with how we exist, but that does not tell us if we carry a soul or anything of the like either. If you want to settle these matters for sure, you only have this one chance now. Choose well.

 

[HAKMKS]

I'm trans mtf, I pass as male, I live in the states, and I am incredibly scared for the future. I want to move to Canada, but I'll never be able to afford that. I'm thinking about moving to Oregon, but that'll be expensive too. Sometimes I feel the only way ill ever pass as female is I ctb and am reincarnated as a woman. But if I kill myself, then I might go to hell, and if reincarnation is the truth, then I'll be born as a frog or something. I don't know what to do, please help.

I wouldn't ctb over this.

Maybe get involved with trans rights groups, who could help.

The NE and California are better than the red states, but there are still areas where you have dummies.

 

[underscore_nine]

I'm trans mtf, I pass as male, I live in the states, and I am incredibly scared for the future. I want to move to Canada, but I'll never be able to afford that. I'm thinking about moving to Oregon, but that'll be expensive too. Sometimes I feel the only way ill ever pass as female is I ctb and am reincarnated as a woman. But if I kill myself, then I might go to hell, and if reincarnation is the truth, then I'll be born as a frog or something. I don't know what to do, please help.

hi i'm trans and i'm canada, it can be really hard, despite hrt i still find myself pretty fucking depressed and want to ctb.. idk in the us maybe move to a blue state? like Washington or New York or illinois.. i'm not sure