"I'm the most attractive when I'm suffering," "Explain to me why I look the hottest when I'm depressed"

[glowing.purple.aura]

short and lame post but I fucking can't with this sentiment

I see people say this all the time on social media and like... congrats??!! idfk don't piss me off...

Maybe I'm just too hateful of a person but like... am I supposed to feel bad or something???! just take your silver lining and go (like bruh if this statement were true for me I would be turning heads everywhere I go but of course I'm stuck with an unhealthy mind, body, and appearance)

IT JUST GIVES ME "not my seasonal depression kicking in- " vibes... AAAAAHHHHH that's what it is or "omggggg I was bedrotting all dayyy but ewww I would never skip showering or brushing my teeth"

 

[not-2-b-the-answer]

Just want to give you hugs...
I don't have answers.

 

[Forever Sleep]

Not that you should feel obliged to confirm but, if you're female, it might be that your vulnerability is attractive. I think some guys in particular like the thought of 'rescuing' or protecting damaged and vulnerable women. But, maybe that's a sexist perspective. Worse, I think some may see it as someone they can more easily dominate/ manipulate.

 

[glowing.purple.aura]

Not that you should feel obliged to confirm but, if you're female, it might be that your vulnerability is attractive. I think some guys in particular like the thought of 'rescuing' or protecting damaged and vulnerable women. But, maybe that's a sexist perspective. Worse, I think some may see it as someone they can more easily dominate/ manipulate.

• unfortunately I don't agree with the thread title, which is why I added the quotes
• also unfortunately/fortunately not a woman because wtf people can't even suffer without being preyed on these days