NothingElseMatters
Warlock
- Mar 30, 2020
- 745
And only dated her 3 times lol I'm needy as fuck, probably because no girls feel attracted to me, and when that happens it's a miracle.
I can relate.
There was these girl I dated only twice but I couldn't stop thinking about her. I was like that for a whole year.
Now, I finally got over her but damn, she was beautiful.
Anyway, I guess more girls will be attracted to you sooner or later. Don't worry too much about it.
There was these girl I dated only twice but I couldn't stop thinking about her. I was like that for a whole year.
Now, I finally got over her but damn, she was beautiful.
Anyway, I guess more girls will be attracted to you sooner or later. Don't worry too much about it.
NothingElseMatters
Warlock
- Mar 30, 2020
- 745
She dumped me and it was when the covid shit was starting, I remember spending my whole days at home thinking and whining about her.
LONE WOLF.
PUNISHER.
- Nov 4, 2020
- 1,988
NOTHING ELSE MATTERS, My heart still cries tears of blood for a girl aged 19 l met and dated for around 2-years when l was 17yrs old 31yrs ago, she was perfection in human form!
@NothingElseMatters that was a while back. Why don't you hit her up and see if she wants to go out for drinks or dinner, just to catch up.
NothingElseMatters
Warlock
- Mar 30, 2020
- 745
Thats not possible, she deleted me on whatsapp and I dont think chase after her would be a good idea, she humiliated me back then with another guy.
strangeceleste
Don’t believe everything you think
- Mar 2, 2021
- 84
Some months ago wrote a girl a message i have dated. When I was in school. After I dreamed from her. I am not obsessed but curious how she is doing. She also experienced traumata. Her life is awesome and she is extremely happy. And I am planning my suicide. But still she was nice to me.
LOl I am very resentful.
LOl I am very resentful.
ZardozOmega
Narcissist Gay NEET-cel
- Mar 4, 2020
- 718
fixitinpost
Arriving Somewhere But Not Here
- Oct 20, 2020
- 161
I really don't want to invalidate your feelings. However, do you have some insight about how irrational that is?
So my point is, emotions are not rational by definition, so you have the right to cry over a girl you dated 3 times the past year.
But I think it is important to have that rational insight, the brain telling you "this is stupid". And again, it's ok to feel bad for stupid things, but it is important to have that insight, otherwise you get owned by your depression telling things like "that girl didn't like MEOMFGIMSONEEDYNOBODYIS GOINGTOEVERLOVEMEIMGOINGTOSPENDMYLIFEALONEFOREVERANDEVERIHATEMYSELFSOMUCH..."
Sorry just wanted to give you a bit of tough love <3
So my point is, emotions are not rational by definition, so you have the right to cry over a girl you dated 3 times the past year.
But I think it is important to have that rational insight, the brain telling you "this is stupid". And again, it's ok to feel bad for stupid things, but it is important to have that insight, otherwise you get owned by your depression telling things like "that girl didn't like MEOMFGIMSONEEDYNOBODYIS GOINGTOEVERLOVEMEIMGOINGTOSPENDMYLIFEALONEFOREVERANDEVERIHATEMYSELFSOMUCH..."
Sorry just wanted to give you a bit of tough love <3
Ihavenofriends
Member
- Feb 26, 2021
- 31
Yeah. There's a guy I loved, a guy with a very cute smile, and I think he loved me as well... but it didn't work out. I self-sabotaged what we had... I think he thought I was "playing with" him. It hurts even more because I know he deserves better than me, and that without me in his life he's probably way happier. I fantasize about him constantly... my romantic fantasies about him have kept me from killing myself for the past 2 years. There's another post I read on this website, by Idlzrs, about how people who need something the most are actually least likely to get it, which is why needy people tend to be seen as unnattractive. People who need love the most are the least likely to get love, which is a real tragedy.
GenesAndEnvironment
Autistic loser
- Jan 26, 2021
- 5,739
Hirokami
Out of order
- Feb 21, 2021
- 607
I've been there, too. I'm so goddamn needy. Always needing even my ex's reinsurance.
OpheliasFlowers
Specialist
- Apr 2, 2019
- 348
I get it. SO get it. I know this makes me sound so pathetic (and I am) but I still have dreams about and cry sometimes for someone I dated for 3 years 33 years ago. I never felt as connected to or had as much fun with (and sadness because of, too) or felt as much passion as I did for him. He dumped me and we reconnected as friends 5 yrs ago after all those years of not speaking (his choice to not be in touch all that time). I am glad to at least be friends again because I care so deeply about him, but it hurts sometimes knowing it will never be more that the superficial friendship it is now, and having to keep those feelings buried deep down. I guess we can't control how we feel for someone, but we have to learn how to control how we act and respond to our feelings. Which can be very hard and very painful sometimes.
Well I had an autisitc meltdown on a girl and she thinks I'm a pathetic weirdo now.
LONE WOLF.
PUNISHER.
- Nov 4, 2020
- 1,988
OpheliasFlowers You're so right,it really does Hurt! in the deepest part of the Heart,and the pain never goes away, Never! That's why I've never let a girl into my broken heart again and never will! I'm just Not willing to take the chance! P.S You're not pathetic !
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Lost also a very beautiful girl because of my own mistakes but anyway. That's the way it is. I have found a new one that is as beautiful as she. So keep on going. These girls show up from the time to time.
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