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idkanymore365
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- May 9, 2021
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I'm done. I'm going to a bridge tonight. I have no idea if I have the guts to jump but I can't carry on anymore so I don't have any other options left. I am so desperate for things to stop.
Breathe. What do you see in front of you?I'm just sat at the top and im so scared. It's remote so I don't have to worry about being found but I am too scared to push myself over the top. Help please. I don't know what to do. I need to do this. Someone please tell me how to get past the fear. I can't come away from here. I hate my life. I need this to work. Please someone tell me how to make myself do it
I'm sorry it's come to this. Take a look around you. Take a moment to connect to the scenery. But before you go take some time to take in this world and life. What do you see. Where are you standing?Breathe. What do you see in front of you?
I'm at the top and there's just fields around me. It's over a train line. There's a motorway not far away but with trees I front of it. Im panicking because I don't know how to build up the courage even though I really don't want to live anymore. Help me please how do I do itBreathe. What do you see in front of you?
I can't. I can't face another day like this. I need to end it tonight. I don't know what to do, I'm panicking I'm just sat here crying and it's going dark and I can't build up the courage to do it but I can't go home. I'm scared of living and I'm scared of dying so what's do I do? I'm trapped up here until I built up the gutsPlease give you a little more time to think about a solution or to have a good plan to go.
I can't stay. Things are too hard. I need things to end tonight.i can't live another day like this. I'm so scared. I can't get myself to jump. It's getting dark and I don't know what to do. Help I can't go homePlease consider allowing yourself more time. If you decide death is definitely what you want, you deserve a peaceful passing, not to die in desperation and fear. I am so sorry you are in this situation. Regardless of what you choose, I hope you find peace. Know that there is never any shame in staying, and that this community will be here for you whatever happens.
Exactly, I did nothing illegal and was treated like a criminal for not being able to carry on living. Thank you for your kind words, I really appreciate it.I'm sorry about that and it makes the situation even more messed up.
Basically, it is not forbidden to sit somewhere at night as long as you do not do anything illegal.
I hope you quickly come to peace and find a way.
Thank you for your kind words, I really appreciate it. I feel like such a failure but survival is so hard to overcome like you said. I'm trying to remember that I can always ctb when I get out, makes things easier to deal with. Thank youI'm so sorry that I was not available to respond. Seems we are at very different time zones. I'm so sorry to hear you feel so scared and cannot go on.
I know this sucks and must be absolutely terrifying. Just know that this sectioning too will pass and you have time to make a rational decision on how you want to exit if you still do want to after you are out.
Survival will always kick in and your method of choice makes it so hard and painful. Give yourself some time to process this. You don't have to make any decision now or answer all your life's questions at this moment.
take the break in hospital, there will always be other moments to exit.
thinking about you. You're not alone.
With pleasure. What are you going to do now? Can someone in your environment help you?Exactly, I did nothing illegal and was treated like a criminal for not being able to carry on living. Thank you for your kind words, I really appreciate it.
Thank you for your kind words, I really appreciate it. I feel like such a failure but survival is so hard to overcome like you said. I'm trying to remember that I can always ctb when I get out, makes things easier to deal with. Thank you
I am still detained in the hospital waiting to be assessed. They will either let me go home "with support" or put me in a psych ward. I'm hoping for the former obviously. I've been feeling like I have for at least 3 years if not longer. I need a way out because I know things will not get better. My sister is supportive of me but lives far away. Everyone else in my life thinks I'm fine. I'm 19 now so thankfully no matter what happens they will legally not be able to tell my mother which is a good thing as our relationship is very rocky.With pleasure. What are you going to do now? Can someone in your environment help you?
Hopefully you don't have to go to a psychiatric hospital - that often doesn't help and you're often very isolated.I am still detained in the hospital waiting to be assessed. They will either let me go home "with support" or put me in a psych ward. I'm hoping for the former obviously. I've been feeling like I have for at least 3 years if not longer. I need a way out because I know things will not get better. My sister is supportive of me but lives far away. Everyone else in my life thinks I'm fine. I'm 19 now so thankfully no matter what happens they will legally not be able to tell my mother which is a good thing as our relationship is very rocky.
Thank you I appreciate it. I've been released from hospital now thank god. I also think visiting my sister would be a good idea for a little while. Thanks for talking to me through this, it's a really lonely process to go through tbh so I really appreciate it :)Hopefully you don't have to go to a psychiatric hospital - that often doesn't help and you're often very isolated.
Maybe it is helpful if your mother knows how bad you feel. Often such events lead to a change in thinking. And then you can come to rest at home.
Maybe you can also stay with your sister for a while.
I hope that everything will be all right for you - you are still so young.
Thank you. I've been released from the hospital. I'm under a team that will come to my house everyday for a week or so. I'm just glad they didn't section me. Not sure what to do now though, back to being trapped in the same life :/I'm sorry that you are going through this. Be sure to keep us updated.
The community team came and saw me and decided to admit me :/ so am now in hospital. I'm very scared and don't know what to do to be honestI'm sorry that you are going through this. Be sure to keep us updated.
They have put me in a psych hospital. I have no idea when I will be allowed home or even to leave - they told me it is up to the psychiatrist who will be in tomorrow. I can talk on the phone yes so that is good. I'm not allowed my charger but the nurse in charge is letting me charge it in the office when it gets low. Honestly I'm terrified, I still feel so suicidal and need an end to it all but know it is completely ridiculous to try and attempt anything in here. Thanks for the message, I appreciate it because I feel so alone at the momentAre you now in a regular hospital or a psychiatric hospital?
When can you go home again?
I hope you are doing well under the circumstances.
Can you at least talk on the phone, for example with your sister?
I was afraid that you would not be allowed to go straight home.They have put me in a psych hospital. I have no idea when I will be allowed home or even to leave - they told me it is up to the psychiatrist who will be in tomorrow. I can talk on the phone yes so that is good. I'm not allowed my charger but the nurse in charge is letting me charge it in the office when it gets low. Honestly I'm terrified, I still feel so suicidal and need an end to it all but know it is completely ridiculous to try and attempt anything in here. Thanks for the message, I appreciate it because I feel so alone at the moment
Yeah, there are other patients but I'm quite anxious so haven't really had the chance to speak to them yet.I was afraid that you would not be allowed to go straight home.
And they will probably let you go only when they think that you will not harm yourself.
Maybe your mother or your sister can visit you at least for a short time.
Are there other patients there with whom you can have a meaningful conversation?
My thoughts are with you - hang in there
This is an exceptional situation.Yeah, there are other patients but I'm quite anxious so haven't really had the chance to speak to them yet.
I am speaking to the psychiatrist today and he will apparently discuss leave, visitors, discharge and all of that. I hope I'm not here long, it's really busy and chaotic, and it's really stressing me out to be honest.
Thank you, that means a lot :) I'm trying