Freyja13
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- May 6, 2023
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I'm constantly asking for money, while contributing none. and the one time i found a job, the manager made a joke about how trans people ctb a lot so i quit it.What do you mean by leech if I may ask?
That sounds like a pretty valid reason to quit tbh. That manager sounds like a right fucker. Maybe we wouldn't have such high suicide rates if people didn't say shit like that (and worse). I've often described myself as a leech tbh. If you asked my therapist they could confirm lmao. I feel so fucking bad cuz I've had so much financial support.... okay I guess it's not THAT much but honestly compared to the amount of money I make and need it is a lot. I haven't repaid it financially. I don't know why but people somehow think I'm worth it. It's hard to get my head around it. I mean it's no wonder though since I've had so many experiences that have reinforced the belief that I'm not worth nearly as much as any other human being. Being a trans woman, especially given current events, hasn't helped either. But this is something I hear again, and again, and again within the trans community and the greater queer community. This isn't even including intersectionality. We're struggling of no fault of our own. We're attempting to survive in a hostile world that would rather see in dead. We NEED this money to simply survive. It doesn't feel good. God do I know that. But what are the alternatives? Right now you're feeling that the best alternative is death. We should not have to feel like this is our best option for simply existing.I'm constantly asking for money, while contributing none. and the one time i found a job, the manager made a joke about how trans people ctb a lot so i quit it.
I agree we shouldn't have to feel this way. I should have to feel this way. But I doThat sounds like a pretty valid reason to quit tbh. That manager sounds like a right fucker. Maybe we wouldn't have such high suicide rates if people didn't say shit like that (and worse). I've often described myself as a leech tbh. If you asked my therapist they could confirm lmao. I feel so fucking bad cuz I've had so much financial support.... okay I guess it's not THAT much but honestly compared to the amount of money I make and need it is a lot. I haven't repaid it financially. I don't know why but people somehow think I'm worth it. It's hard to get my head around it. I mean it's no wonder though since I've had so many experiences that have reinforced the belief that I'm not worth nearly as much as any other human being. Being a trans woman, especially given current events, hasn't helped either. But this is something I hear again, and again, and again within the trans community and the greater queer community. This isn't even including intersectionality. We're struggling of no fault of our own. We're attempting to survive in a hostile world that would rather see in dead. We NEED this money to simply survive. It doesn't feel good. God do I know that. But what are the alternatives? Right now you're feeling that the best alternative is death. We should not have to feel like this is our best option for simply existing.
I know. I'm sorry you do. I'm going to head to sleep now but I hope you'll have a peaceful night. It would be nice to talk again. :)I agree we shouldn't have to feel this way. I should have to feel this way. But I do
Have a good night.I know. I'm sorry you do. I'm going to head to sleep now but I hope you'll have a peaceful night. It would be nice to talk again. :)
. It's been a pleasure talking to everyone and lurking.
But I still constantly hurt people just by being myself.
It's okay. I'm here for you. Do you want to talk? I relate to a lot of what you've said here.In the end i cant do it...
That's ok. Take care of yourself todayIn the end i cant do it..
Omg she does have beautiful nails doesn't she? I wish I could have nails like that but I keep ripping them off when they get long enough. Idk why I do that. Maybe stress? It does feel good thoughHey. You can decide to take the SA whenever you want, it doesn't have to be in a few minutes. Whether you decide take it now, take it later, or not take it, will be the right answer for you. If you do take the SA, I hope you find peace.
I'm not trying to belittle you or distract from your post, but the first thing I thought when I saw that last picture is how beautiful your nails are; please look after yourself like you clearly look after them.
Hey you! I'm sorry last night and this morning haven't gone so well for you. I'm glad you're still here though. I'm open to talk if you want to.I dknt know why I couldn't do it. But I still want to ctb. I just think there might be a few things worth doing or getting first.