Enough said… All year long I realized I want to die because of her. Enid of story,
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Dizzylady80
Experienced
- Nov 5, 2020
- 226
Is leaving her out of the question?
locked*n*loaded
Archangel
- Apr 15, 2022
- 9,002
Right. Leave the stupid bitch (your words).
DaatiSimi
Member
- Nov 24, 2022
- 65
How is it her fault? Why you don't leave if you hate her so much?
Ok. Sooo you should never ever ever refer to your WIFE as stupid bitch. If you are unhappy... leave....
I mean absolutely no offense when I say this, but I think it's a little invalidating to say something like this to someone who isn't in the best state of mind, likely depressed, or with any other combination of issues. We don't know if OP is being abused by his wife, or if she is purposely degrading his finances, or whatever other case might be happening. I don't believe you're wrong, I wouldn't ever call a woman I barely know or a woman that's close to me something like that, but not everybody can say that about the people in their lives. We don't know what his relationship is like, so it would be equally invalidating to say "yes! She is a $****d ß***h!" Or "Don't ever call her that!". I think it would be much more healthy and conscientious to tell the poster that if that's how he feels, then his feelings are correct and he should trust his instinct and leave her. Again, please don't take what I said as an offensive gesture.
I'm not going to be the one that invalidates what you feel. I'm obviously not going to endorse what you said about your wife, but the truth of the matter is that not everyone is compatible with each other. If you really do feel like your wife is as you describe, then your feelings are correct for you! It might not be correct for everyone else, but you shouldn't be ashamed to admit how you truly feel. There are always men and women who will fit the description of horrible people, and as such, there are women I would personally call "stupid bitches" (Like Ghislaine Maxwell) just like there are men I would call "stupid pigs" (Jefferey Epstein). Now, you were clearly drunk like you described when you wrote your post, so I will also say that it may be that you weren't in the best state of mind. When you sober up, see if you feel the same way. If you do, then your feelings are correct for you! In that case, I would recommend that you take steps to leave her. I would also ignore the other comments saying you shouldn't ever call your wife something like that. I'm not saying that they're wrong, as I personally wouldn't call my wife a stupid bitch if I had a wife, but I think it's invalidating towards your feelings. I seriously hope things get better between you and your wife, and if not, I hope you make as smooth a transition as possible towards leaving her. It's all love from me!
. Please don't let anyone get you down, and just remember what I said. Cheers!
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theboy
Illuminated
- Jul 15, 2022
- 3,262
theboy
Illuminated
- Jul 15, 2022
- 3,262
I was writing a journal during the year and I realized that most of my crisis are because of my significant other. And yes I have also called her a bitch. Then, it is obvious that ending the relationship would be the best for me but is it really the answer? I've always felt that I've been running away from the problems in my life and I wonder if maybe the right choice is to stay in hell, for now. Who knows, maybe my soul learns something or I atone for the errors in the past. Even better, maybe it brings me closer to ending my journey sooner.
My best wishes to you and I hope we can learn to make things better.
My best wishes to you and I hope we can learn to make things better.
Hey man,
Sometimes it takes a moment of clarity like what you seem to have had to really understand why things are the way they are.
If she's your problem though, you can get away without suicide. It probably will still be quite miserable, but maybe give it a shot and see if it's worth it. You can always come back here if you need to..
Sometimes it takes a moment of clarity like what you seem to have had to really understand why things are the way they are.
If she's your problem though, you can get away without suicide. It probably will still be quite miserable, but maybe give it a shot and see if it's worth it. You can always come back here if you need to..
I was drunk when posting this thread. I should have worded it differently I suppose, but the feelings and the urge to vent remain the same.
Thank you for your kind words. What unmarried people with no asset and children don't understand is how much more miserable life can become going through a bitter divorce.
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locked*n*loaded
Archangel
- Apr 15, 2022
- 9,002
I know when my ex fiance' and I started fighting all the time and calling each other nasty names (she used to call me dickhead and piece of shit, and I used to call her stupid cunt and yes, stupid bitch), it was time to breakup. It was hard at the time breaking up, always is, but as time went on, it was clear it was the right choice for both of us. I'm just glad I never married her and had kids with her, and didn't have any marital assets with her, either. Toxic relationships just suck the life out of both people.
