Venting I'm done of getting stupid advices!

[nopointofliving]

They don't know you. They know nothing about your history and your pain.

All what they do is giving you fucking pieces of advice like they do really care about you

You should be this! You should be that!
You should find a job!
You should marry!
You should take care of yourself!
You should wear this and that!

Did they ever know that you already tried!! you're already trying?!
Did they ever know that you applied to many fucking jobs, and got no response??!!
Did they ever know that you're fucking smarter than them but life was unfair to you??!!!
Did they ever know that you loved and cared but motherfuckers manipulated you??!
Did they ever know that you want to take care of yourself but every fucking thought drains you?!!!!!!!!!!

Did they ever know anything about you??!! they think they are too good giving advice as they are so fucking successful. Oh my fucking God, they know nothing about life... they won't know they are just lucky, it has nothing to do with their fucking efforts. They don't even know that they didn't even try 50% of our attempts to live this fucking life. Life was just okay for them, but it did hit us so hard.

I wish they just spent only one of my dark nights, then they will know the true meaning of their worthless advice.

 

[WornOutLife]

Oh those goddamn "shoulds"

I hate them!

They SHOULD just shut up lol.

 

[Pen>Sword]

Preach!

These "advice" are nothing but adding salt to the injury. It doesn't help at all. These "advice" are nothing but showing off about how much they achieve: marriage, employment, financial stability, decent wage, proper friends and connection just to name a few.

We're a unique bunch, and there's no such thing as "one-size-fits-all" solution.

 

[nopointofliving]

Preach!

These "advice" are nothing but adding salt to the injury. It doesn't help at all. These "advice" are nothing but showing off about how much they achieve: marriage, employment, financial stability, decent wage, proper friends and connection just to name a few.

We're a unique bunch, and there's no such thing as "one-size-fits-all" solution.

Exactly 100% true

 

[S like suicide]

"THEY WON'T KNOW THEY ARE JUST LUCKY" Exactly,well said!!!

 

[orlandom]

They don't know you. They know nothing about your history and your pain.

All what they do is giving you fucking pieces of advice like they do really care about you

You should be this! You should be that!
You should find a job!
You should marry!
You should take care of yourself!
You should wear this and that!

Did they ever know that you already tried!! you're already trying?!
Did they ever know that you applied to many fucking jobs, and got no response??!!
Did they ever know that you're fucking smarter than them but life was unfair to you??!!!
Did they ever know that you loved and cared but motherfuckers manipulated you??!
Did they ever know that you want to take care of yourself but every fucking thought drains you?!!!!!!!!!!

Did they ever know anything about you??!! they think they are too good giving advice as they are so fucking successful. Oh my fucking God, they know nothing about life... they won't know they are just lucky, it has nothing to do with their fucking efforts. They don't even know that they didn't even try 50% of our attempts to live this fucking life. Life was just okay for them, but it did hit us so hard.

I wish they just spent only one of my dark nights, then they will know the true meaning of their worthless advice.

Do you know? Do you really know?

I understand you.

I'm near.

 

[SuicidallyCurious]

You should engage in 9-5 corporate lifescripts to enrich people you don't know and don't care about you

 

[filthyrottendirty]

- people who don't know what it means to suffer

 

[Some1's_Wasted_Fetus]

I will never take advice from other people seriously unless they too are going through the things I am. Even then I take it with a grain of salt. Even your psychologist will never know what it's like to be you. They can analyze you and write down as many notes about you that they want but everyone's life is completely unique to them. You might find people who have a very similar life or commonalities but each individual's life experiences will never be identical to another person. Even identical twins have two different experiences in life. Same with siblings

 

[BlankUser]

This hits home so hard. Most people won't understand your pain... Unless they've experienced something similar.

 

[FuneralCry]

I can relate to this. People just haven't been there themselves and they haven't suffered enough so they couldn't possibly understand. Its why I would rather isolate myself than try and take advice from other people. People think they are helping but they just cause more pain.

 

[nopointofliving]

People's advice took me back to the zero point. They destroyed my lil efforts to improve my life. Now I'm again feeling bad and low, sleeping all the time with the hand on my heart. I feel the pain there. I wish I could leave here so soon.

 

[avoid_slow_death]

This is my family. I love them. They mean well. But the do not get me at all. Same clichés, same dismissals, same lame advice about "You'll get over it" as if they don't understand what certain things truly mean to me. Oh well. Its ok though. Have recently decided to become very guarded emotionally in the real world. Hell I am done putting myself out there so people can just tell me stupid shit that makes me hate myself even more. Done with that.

 

[IHaveNoName]

I also get sick of this I really hate life and there is no way I'm able to come back from any of this but at least the people that are saying things like this are trying to some exteny to try to understand and help. I really wish I could have someone to talk to maybe it would make me be able to deal with some of this.

 

[Rayzieka]

I understand its frustrating. But luckily for me most of those 'shoulds' were 'coulds'. Ethier way I feel like in most cases they're expressing genuine care. But if you're like me and I think a lot of others, you just 'cant'. It's when they won't understand that you cant that it turns from care to perhaps manipulation or trying to make themselves feel helpful. But I can't blame those I care about for the 'you could's. Because they're probably trying really hard too- and probably have a lot of 'coulds' too and just don't want to see us fall.

 

[solanastan16]

This is my family. I love them. They mean well. But the do not get me at all. Same clichés, same dismissals, same lame advice about "You'll get over it" as if they don't understand what certain things truly mean to me. Oh well. Its ok though. Have recently decided to become very guarded emotionally in the real world. Hell I am done putting myself out there so people can just tell me stupid shit that makes me hate myself even more. Done with that.

I completely agree with this. I've been doing this jus to protect myself from their condescending questions.

 

[Lost Magic]

Yep heard it all before from people (whether well meaning or not) it does get tiresome. Life is just hard and there is nothing anybody can say or do to make things better. Pulling up your socks is no longer what people who are struggling in life desire to hear.