Not to be rude but your parents don't owe you anything. It's their money. They can spend it how they want, whether you agree with that or not. If you are an adult, you need to figure it out. They've raised you and now it's your turn to be an adult. You come across as incredibly entitled. I don't mind helping my kids out but they need to figure out how to "adult". If I gave them a house, that would not help them out in any way. Now I will help them in figuring out how to build their credit or maybe get a better job. But I will not DO it for them. I wish you the best of luck. It sounds like you may need it.