There's a few things you can do. 1. Wait. It takes while. 2 go from the end of the mega thread backwards from the newest posts and look for NY, PENN, NJ and so on. You might find one but you may have to go back 20 pages or so. If you find someone message them but they may not be on the site anymore so keep that in mind. This is what I did. Worse case is you make a few friends extra from the thread. ❤