I would suggest considering another method. I'm very new here, and I'm not familiar with all the methods, so I'm hesitant to make any specific recommendations. Maybe someone else can chime in? I'll just say that while some of us might view your current method as a generous act, the rest of society would view it as something else. There would likely be far-reaching consequences for the other person involved. I also imagine it would be very traumatic for the other person involved.