Venting I need man in my life

[Emily_Numb]

You really don't need a man. Especially if you think it's going to make him miserable. No offence but I believe it's selfish to bring someone into your life if you really feel you're just going to bring him down.
If it's sex you want them just find a hook up on tinder.

 

[greebo6]

One of my reasons for wanting to ctb is general loneliness . Its horrible .
I also know all too well how it feels to want a special someone in your life too. That is just as bad in its own way.
That's two kinds of loneliness.
But either way ;
Loneliness can be lethal...….

 

[liluglibih]

You probably don't want to hear this but a relationship isn't the answer. It's just another distraction from how unhappy you are with yourself

 

[ZardozOmega]

You really don't need a man. Especially if you think it's going to make him miserable. No offence but I believe it's selfish to bring someone into your life if you really feel you're just going to bring him down.
If it's sex you want them just find a hook up on tinder.

I won't do it dude, I couldn't even if I wanted to, and I don't.. I'm just venting.

 

[Niftypoint124]

I dunno, man. The feeding and care of men is kinda overrated, at least according to all the women I know that get after that. Maybe just a cuddle buddy for human contact? Pre-pandemic, professional cuddlers were a thing.

 

[Symbiote]

I dunno, man. The feeding and care of men is kinda overrated, at least according to all the women I know that get after that. Maybe just a cuddle buddy for human contact? Pre-pandemic, professional cuddlers were a thing.

I used to be a professional cuddler for a day. That job ended when she woke up in the middle of the night and screamed "get out of my house" :P

 

[StringPuppet]

It is not worth it for the immediate physical gratification. You are better than that.

No I don't think I am

 

[Niftypoint124]

I used to be a professional cuddler for a day. That job ended when she woke up in the middle of the night and screamed "get out of my house" :P

While I get the joke, low-hanging rotten fruit has never struck me as particularly funny.

Anyway...

 

[ohhgeeitsme]

There are many studies that clearly show isolation and loneliness can have serious negative consequences to a person's mental health. So while a lot of people will tell you a romantic partner or close friend won't solve your problems, for a lot of people, it actually will. For some, it will at first but then you'll go right back to being miserable again after a while. For the rest, it won't help at all. It all just depends on the person. I mean, depression is not always a mental illness. Sometimes it's just situational. Either way, I'm sorry you're so lonely. I feel the same. I guess the majority of us here are. Since they have a partners thread for people trying to die together on here, they should make one for the lonely people who just want company. I think a lot of people would try that out first. Good luck to you.

 

[262653]

low-hanging rotten fruit has never struck me as particularly funny

Same. Don't people have some sort of standards? I don't know if the leftovers of the social market can just get together. I know I wouldn't want to be with someone who doesn't benefit me. And valuable people are probably on the lookout for other valuable people, or at least that would be my strategy.

 

[death becomes her]

I relate to all of these posts so much. I don't think I could ever be with anyone again, I'm still not over my ex and I think being with someone else would just remind me of how much I miss him.

 

[Midnight]

Loneliness kills ... Albeit very slowly. Kind of like torture. That's how it feels to me anyway. (Talking about years/decades not weeks or months)

 

[SmellyRat]

Loneliness kills ... Albeit very slowly. Kind of like torture. That's how it feels to me anyway. (Talking about years/decades not weeks or months)

This is me.

 

[Niftypoint124]

Same. Don't people have some sort of standards? I don't know if the leftovers of the social market can just get together. I know I wouldn't want to be with someone who doesn't benefit me. And valuable people are probably on the lookout for other valuable people, or at least that would be my strategy.

I was talking about the "har har, me touchie women no likie" punchline, so you lost me here.

 

[ZardozOmega]

Loneliness kills ... Albeit very slowly. Kind of like torture. That's how it feels to me anyway. (Talking about years/decades not weeks or months)

that's what the SN is for

 

[yetme]

I'm lonely :/
I guess I'd just make his life worse

You don't need a man, you don't need anybody, you are already a complete being.
People need to stop being afraid to be alone, because being alone is the most natural thing in life.
That's what Tarkovsky said, not me)

 

[Deleted member 23586]

Since they have a partners thread for people trying to die together on here, they should make one for the lonely people who just want company. I think a lot of people would try that out first. Good luck to you.

God I would love this. Even if I don't participate due to shyness and anxiety. This sounds incredibly comforting.

 

[Deleted member 19654]

God I would love this. Even if I don't participate due to shyness and anxiety. This sounds incredibly comforting.

https://sanctioned-suicide.net/threads/the-secret-santa-partner-thread.53382/

There's a friendship/support partner secret Santa that's being set up if you're interested. There's also a recovery partner megathread but it's pretty dead

 

[Deleted member 22650]

I'll be anyone's friend, im quite lonely as well, everyone's awkward here so we good why not befriend eachother? Crazy to think that the cure is simple since yet so far, because friendship/relationship is quite fucking random, in my opinion.

 

[Gromit-CTB]

Think any relationship I had now would be doomed. More interested in ctb to end any future hurt and the present pain

 

[LittleBlackCat]

Can I join the lonely club please? It's the reason I want to ctb.
actually fell in love with someone earlier this year, but he doesn't feel the same. Now I just feel ugly and worthless. Empty.

 

[Good4Nothing]

Can I join the lonely club please? It's the reason I want to ctb.
actually fell in love with someone earlier this year, but he doesn't feel the same. Now I just feel ugly and worthless. Empty.

You're in the club.

 

[Konjac]

The world's most depressing club, every new member gets a free dose of SN.

 

[LenkaX]

I'm in deep loneliness too and it's big reason to CTB. But the last 2 months I've been having severe insomnia (although I take lots of sedative drugs before sleep everyday) and it's even worse than the loneliness... the inability to even fall asleep... Day by day, month by month, year by year, it only gets worse and new and new problems come to my life.

 

[Deleted member 23586]

I'm in deep loneliness too and it's big reason to CTB. But the last 2 months I've been having severe insomnia (although I take lots of sedative drugs before sleep everyday) and it's even worse than the loneliness... the inability to even fall asleep... Day by day, month by month, year by year, it only gets worse and new and new problems come to my life.

I have insomnia and have dealt with it my whole life. It's the worst. I was also punished a lot as a kid for having it. But that shouldn't come as a surprise if you knew the type of house I grew up in lol. But I take sleeping pills as well. I wish I had something strong enough to sleep for like 12 hours. That would be so nice.

I'm sorry that you have to deal with that. It's so fucked up especially in conjuction with loneliness and depression. Like fuck it's the worst.

 

[_Kaira_]

I don't have a problem finding people to be in relationships with. My problem is eventually and unintentionally chasing them away. I too wish I could keep a guy in my life, seems impossible at this point. I just want to shower someone in all of my love and affection, and then receive it in return without BS destroying it. I don't want a fwb, meaningless sex, or anything like that. I want a partner in life, but I can't find something like that cause I'm not deserving of something as beautiful as that.

But of course, that's only one thing on my big list of issues.

Edit: I don't have trouble finding people online (via games or something...fat chance of finding someone naturally in real life because I'm a social dumpsterfire). Yes, it has put me in a lot more hurt than anything beneficial.


(I love this picture..lol)

 

[Abir_london]

You can be in our club.

Can I join as well :/

 

[Niftypoint124]

I'm seeing a lot of folks in this thread talking about sleep issues and sleeping pills. I'm curious, how many folks are practicing some kind of sleep maintenance to try to help getting to bed?