• ⚠️ UK Access Block Notice: Beginning July 1, 2025, this site will no longer be accessible from the United Kingdom. This is a voluntary decision made by the site's administrators. We were not forced or ordered to implement this block. If you're located in the UK, we recommend using a VPN to maintain access.

eeeeeedeeeeeden

eeeeeedeeeeeden

another lost spirit
Aug 6, 2023
28
Y'all I need advice. My partner has chosen to go on a drug bender after promising to not touch drugs again because he's 'in his own shit' as he said, telling me to fuck how I feel and how everyone else feels, that he doesn't care about how I feel or how anyone feels right now . He got angry and kept repeatedly telling me to dump him if I'm upset and angry with him, then turning it on me and how I always find something to be pissed at with him. I understand how he feels as he's unable to talk about his feels if due to a lot of significant trauma and is turning to destructive behaviours because he's so low but I don't know what to do. I obviously can't support him going back to drugs and getting shit faced to feel better. I feel like I'm not allowed to be emotional right now because of how he feels. My feelings are valid right? I get that he can't talk about how when feels and it's really mentally tore him down but I don't deserve to be treated this way either do I?
 
  • Hugs
Reactions: theslasher, pole, Praestat_Mori and 1 other person
H

handel420

Member
Aug 16, 2023
5
You're feelings are valid.
 
  • Like
  • Love
Reactions: theslasher and eeeeeedeeeeeden
JustABug

JustABug

Sinking in my skin
Aug 18, 2023
115
Y'all I need advice. My partner has chosen to go on a drug bender after promising to not touch drugs again because he's 'in his own shit' as he said, telling me to fuck how I feel and how everyone else feels, that he doesn't care about how I feel or how anyone feels right now . He got angry and kept repeatedly telling me to dump him if I'm upset and angry with him, then turning it on me and how I always find something to be pissed at with him. I understand how he feels as he's unable to talk about his feels if due to a lot of significant trauma and is turning to destructive behaviours because he's so low but I don't know what to do. I obviously can't support him going back to drugs and getting shit faced to feel better. I feel like I'm not allowed to be emotional right now because of how he feels. My feelings are valid right? I get that he can't talk about how when feels and it's really mentally tore him down but I don't deserve to be treated this way either do I?
Your feelings are 100% valid in this situation. Is there anyone you can get to talk to him? A mutual friend perhaps? Because unfortunately if he doesn't want help there is nothing you can do-other than making yourself feel worse because of his behaviour. Would you be able to take a break from talking/interacting with him for now?
 
  • Hugs
Reactions: eeeeeedeeeeeden
Mxverick

Mxverick

Member
Aug 12, 2023
90
Speed and coke from what he said, a 'one day bender'
These drugs cause a lot of withdrawal, but your boyfriend shouldn't afford to start drugs again. I would consider reporting him to the authorities if the situation escalates, and btw you're doing it for his own good.
 

Similar threads

iknowwhatyouredoing
Replies
14
Views
538
Recovery
SchizoGymnast
SchizoGymnast
lv-nii
Replies
6
Views
270
Suicide Discussion
bankai
bankai
depthss
Replies
2
Views
174
Suicide Discussion
Ch4in3dcr0w
Ch4in3dcr0w
dcla
Replies
2
Views
156
Suicide Discussion
hedezev4
hedezev4