NothingElseMatters
Warlock
- Mar 30, 2020
- 745
What's this life for? My life has no meaning.
Xebsora29
XebRubix
- Nov 1, 2019
- 47
Yep. Its hard out there man. If you have some urge to keep living though, try to switch the alternatives. Mass apply for jobs, call them, save up money, and eventually leave the home. It will take time, but if you remain persistent at it, could potentially be better. Not saying that it will indefinitely, but theres a chance.
Don't feel bad. I am in the same position.
Well, It is helpful for you, I am exactly same as you, or almost..............ok, I won't lie you....I must be worse than you.
I do not live with my parents but I am older than you.
You have no woman, it is not a drama, in my humble opinion of course.....Right now, I do prefer have a dog, like song says...............well that happens when you reach a certain age.
No job and no money. Those issues use to be solved together.
I do not live with my parents but I am older than you.
You have no woman, it is not a drama, in my humble opinion of course.....Right now, I do prefer have a dog, like song says...............well that happens when you reach a certain age.
No job and no money. Those issues use to be solved together.
Same. 29 and got dumped because of a stupid mistake. Living at home and unable to work because of the depression after break up. Suicidal for 4 months... Tied a noose and experimenting with it. My whole future blown away and yes feeling like a complete failure while I had all the chances.
Jumper Geo
Life's a bitch and then you die.
- Feb 23, 2020
- 2,910
That's not to bad many people stay at home longer these days, it costs a fortune to buy a house the deposit is out of most peoples reach and renting is getting just as bad you are going no where my friend, Covid-19 has put a stop to that, I hope you get on well with your parents if so stay there until you can afford to move. If you want a job I know in the UK the large supermarkets are looking for temp staff and if they are good at there jobs will be offered permanent ones when this crisis has improved.
You could look a studying for a career online or in a classroom, it's never to late.
Cheers Geo
You could look a studying for a career online or in a classroom, it's never to late.
Cheers Geo
I am on the exact same boat as you with the exact same situation !
Really, well that's somehow nice to hear that there are others in this situation... But if feel u man. It's horrible. It's dangerous as well.
Yep, broke up with my partner over a stupid mistake, off work with depression, and practising with a noose, 100% wont be here much longer as shes with someone new now and I cant bare to watch that
NothingElseMatters
Warlock
- Mar 30, 2020
- 745
I had a girlfriend too, she broke up with me and after 1 week was posting photos with another man
Fuck man, what are the odds.. How long were you together? I was living together for 7 years. She is also already seeing someone. Can't take it.. She was the woman of my life. I am also quite sure I won't be here for much longer.
How do you cope ? My biggest fear is we have a child together, and I cant stand back and watch another guy be around my child
Nem
Drs suck mega ass!
- Sep 3, 2018
- 1,489
Sorry to hear, I'm older and no partner and have a nice set of health problems and near bankruptcy daily. I'm in the same boat and it's the titanic
Peace/hugs
Peace/hugs
We were together 4 year and have a daughter coming 2, since our breakup 10 weeks ago I haven't seen either of them, except driving past in the car. have u saw proof of your ex with this man ? My ex is saying she has a new man but no one has saw him etc and anytime you see her about she is alone
NothingElseMatters
Warlock
- Mar 30, 2020
- 745
I had to delete her of all my social medias, I'm not able to see that.
how long were yous together was this guy on the side line during the relationship hence why she moved on so quick
NothingElseMatters
Warlock
- Mar 30, 2020
- 745
2y and a half. I think she was with him a few weeks before our break up
Could be a rebound, if yous broke up not long ago it could be just that and you could still have a chance after it
Green Destiny
Life isn't worth the trouble.
- Nov 16, 2019
- 862
Painpleasure
Student
- Apr 9, 2019
- 108
The good news for you as a man is that it's never too late to rebuild yourself and aspire to a promising future. Your girlfriend, on the other hand, will lose her fertility, youth, beauty and youthful femininity as she ages.
Just focus on yourself. Trust me. Compare yourself to your ex girlfriend in ten years time and report on the results.
Just focus on yourself. Trust me. Compare yourself to your ex girlfriend in ten years time and report on the results.
Supersadmommy90
Student
- Sep 24, 2019
- 186
This is true. A 30 year old man still has so much time left. You still have another 10-15 years of sexual prime left, even after that if you work hard to accumulate wealth you can still offer security to a woman and that is a lot since you're fertile until you're old. That is a lot. As for myself, as a 30 year old woman I'm already obviously past my prime. I might have 5 years left if I'm lucky of being sexually relevant. I'm really feeling the loss of what you've described and although it's something every woman goes through, in my case it's harder because all I have to show for it is failed relationships and a broken home.
Painless_end
Life is too difficult for me
- Oct 11, 2019
- 794
Forest Fire
Student
- Jul 19, 2019
- 118
Pretty much the same position but I work bottom rung in a supermarket part time.
Just realised i'm 31 in less than a month as well...
Just realised i'm 31 in less than a month as well...
It's not your fault. It's the evil system we live under. If u were an isolated case it might be but I know a guy that is 42 and still living at home. He's an addict. But he has had trouble as well with not being able to launch. A lot of it comes down to lack of decent jobs and cost of living is too high so the young can't get started. Central banks and government are your enemies. It's not easy to see how this entity ruins people's lives but it is the biggest source of destruction to most people's lives. You have to make meaning out of life. Typically meaning comes from career, marriage and kids, community involvement, church. But I understand, if u can't attain these than what are u supposed to do? I fall into the same camp. I had serious trouble getting a foot hold in life. The only reason I could get away from home early was because of my strip club job. I could travel around a bit with that in my youth, but I knew it was not a good long term plan. I didn't know what to do and had mental health issues that made it hard to make relationships work. I now just feel like a waste at 43. This failure to get started in life has been going on since gen X. People born in the 70's and onward if not the late 60's. I had anxiety about getting married because it seemed like relationships were a major source of stress and I just decided to avoid it unless I could find therapy but never could find affordable therapy lol!
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enjolras
Dead are useless if not to love the living more
- Feb 13, 2020
- 1,293
No woman, no cry... (sorry Mr. Bob, I proceed to a diversion of meaning to comfort our friend, who used a Metallica song to name himself)
For the rest of the title, I'm lacking guidelines since nobody wrote a song.
Imho, everybody has a meaning larger than life !
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