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Enlightened
- Apr 8, 2020
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Some of us have legitimate reasons to hate our relatives a couple of weeks ago I finally told my grandmother the truth that I do not like visiting the relatives in her home country. Growing up I was not allowed to express any anger or upset about anything if I did i got into so much trouble as result I have so much resentment and unresolved pain which is now showing in my 20s. My grandmother called me a sinner and how God gave us these relatives for a reason.
Visiting my relatives in my parents home country is the one thing in the world that makes me so miserable because they are terrible people who bring problems to other peoples lives. I know it sounds evil but I loved the pandemic because i didn't have to see my relatives anymore due to the strict travel restrictions the UK government imposed on my parents home country because it meant never seeing these people. I cried when the travel restrictions ended.
My grandmother and mother love these arsehole relatives and value their approval. I will always hate my relatives because there where never there for my mother when she was struggling as a single mum when I was born. These people knew my mum was struggling but none of these relatives cared. My family tree is huge with multiple cousins, aunties and uncles and my grandmother was helping the relatives with their problems even financially. When my household had problems NONE of these people's helped in our hour of need.
January was the worst spending a month seeing my awful relatives. I was so happy during the pandemic when there was a travel ban imposed on my parents home country because it meant never seeing these people. My grandmother said mother love these arsehole relatives and value their approval. I will always hate my relatives because there where never there for my mother when she was struggling as a single mum when I was born. These people knew my mum was struggling but none of these relatives cared. My family tree is huge with multiple cousins, aunties and uncles and my grandmother was helping the relatives with their problems.
My relatives are 100% to blame for my problems in my life. My relatives made me feel like an outsider as a teenager due to their gossiping about me and looking down upon me for not being traditional like them. I struggle immensely with identity and belonging because of my own blood relatives excluding me first.
Being the first born child i had deal with my mother always getting stressed about work and always taking out on me. Life would have been easier if my relatives helped and supported. It sickens me so much their fake nice behaviour when they have never been there nor cared.
My family household would have been so much richer if my grandmother and mother were not always giving money to help these people. I will always hate my relatives it's because of them I had to take student loan for university because my mother and grandmother had no money left for me. As a teenager my mother was always dealing with relatives and their problems I got left out.
Visiting my relatives in my parents home country is the one thing in the world that makes me so miserable because they are terrible people who bring problems to other peoples lives. I know it sounds evil but I loved the pandemic because i didn't have to see my relatives anymore due to the strict travel restrictions the UK government imposed on my parents home country because it meant never seeing these people. I cried when the travel restrictions ended.
My grandmother and mother love these arsehole relatives and value their approval. I will always hate my relatives because there where never there for my mother when she was struggling as a single mum when I was born. These people knew my mum was struggling but none of these relatives cared. My family tree is huge with multiple cousins, aunties and uncles and my grandmother was helping the relatives with their problems even financially. When my household had problems NONE of these people's helped in our hour of need.
January was the worst spending a month seeing my awful relatives. I was so happy during the pandemic when there was a travel ban imposed on my parents home country because it meant never seeing these people. My grandmother said mother love these arsehole relatives and value their approval. I will always hate my relatives because there where never there for my mother when she was struggling as a single mum when I was born. These people knew my mum was struggling but none of these relatives cared. My family tree is huge with multiple cousins, aunties and uncles and my grandmother was helping the relatives with their problems.
My relatives are 100% to blame for my problems in my life. My relatives made me feel like an outsider as a teenager due to their gossiping about me and looking down upon me for not being traditional like them. I struggle immensely with identity and belonging because of my own blood relatives excluding me first.
Being the first born child i had deal with my mother always getting stressed about work and always taking out on me. Life would have been easier if my relatives helped and supported. It sickens me so much their fake nice behaviour when they have never been there nor cared.
My family household would have been so much richer if my grandmother and mother were not always giving money to help these people. I will always hate my relatives it's because of them I had to take student loan for university because my mother and grandmother had no money left for me. As a teenager my mother was always dealing with relatives and their problems I got left out.
