Anonymoususer1234
Experienced
- Apr 13, 2023
- 214
That advice helps nobody. I have never left my comfort zone without regretting it. Fuck people who think they know you better than you know yourself.
lemonbunny
daydreaming the pain away ☆.。.:*・°
- Sep 9, 2023
- 229
every time i try leaving my comfort zone it backfires, this is exactly why i want to ctb
Well, I guess that depends on whether you're happy with your zone or not.
It's not about actively seeking discomfort, but sticking to the same zone will yield pretty much the same results. If you want to create change you need to try new approaches. There's really no way around that.
It's not about actively seeking discomfort, but sticking to the same zone will yield pretty much the same results. If you want to create change you need to try new approaches. There's really no way around that.
untothedepths
ego death, then death
- Mar 20, 2023
- 583
same. it doesnt help that fear is magnified for me so when i have to "step out of my comfort zone" it feels like my life is being threatened so im already on the verge of a mental breakdown. its like "here is some advice, sink or swim bitch". half of me wants people to spend a day in my shoes. they'll come begging for me to take it back lmao
It's the same thing like saying to prioritize long term goals over short term gratification but suicidal thoughts put into question the plausibility of staying alive long term and makes this advice iffy
enduringwinter
flower, water
- Jun 20, 2024
- 309
Spoken like true greenhouse flowers. Most of us here in the real world are trying our damndest to hold on to the remnants of what we painstakingly built of ourselves.
Dr Iron Arc
Into the Unknown
- Feb 10, 2020
- 20,969
Hate this phrase too. I don't even care if it will be likely to lead to success if it's not 100% guaranteed. If there's even 1 percent of a percent of a percent chance of failure, then why risk the danger?
Ironborn
Specialist
- Jan 29, 2024
- 378
People who say that never step out of their own "comfort zones"
Theirs is just larger by default.
Theirs is just larger by default.
I understand the statement in terms of- fear can hold us back from doing things that may eventually bring us joy. It can potentially hold us back from even trying.
I feel the same though. I've kind of accepted now that it's all a compromise. Either you face the things that terrify you. Potentially making yourself more unhappy short-term in the hopes that long-term, it will work out for the better- and it doesn't always! Or, you accept that your fear is going to likely keep you in an unhappy but at least, safer feeling place.
I've definitely taken this route with social anxieties. I'd rather not be around people, even if that means I may feel lonely from time to time. Even if it means I haven't progressed as far in my career as I would have liked. It still feels preferable.
I think you can also feel a sense of peace from feeling like you aren't going to push yourself to do things you find truly awful anymore. That in itself can bring some sense of relief/happiness.
I feel the same though. I've kind of accepted now that it's all a compromise. Either you face the things that terrify you. Potentially making yourself more unhappy short-term in the hopes that long-term, it will work out for the better- and it doesn't always! Or, you accept that your fear is going to likely keep you in an unhappy but at least, safer feeling place.
I've definitely taken this route with social anxieties. I'd rather not be around people, even if that means I may feel lonely from time to time. Even if it means I haven't progressed as far in my career as I would have liked. It still feels preferable.
I think you can also feel a sense of peace from feeling like you aren't going to push yourself to do things you find truly awful anymore. That in itself can bring some sense of relief/happiness.
