TheHatedOne
Death is salvation
- Sep 26, 2021
- 2,028
(AFAB = Assigned Female At Birth)
How do I even begin this... I hate everything about being AFAB. Absolutely everything. I failed at every chance of having a decent life when I was born, bullshit country, bullshit family, bullshit time, but being born biologically female hurt the most of all.
Being AFAB is equal to being always in pain. Something always hurts me. I fucking hate these female organs that I didn't consent to have. If I spend little time in hte cold my ovaries hurt lioke crazy and I have to always pee. Two-three weeks ago I experienced the worst pain ever... well, down there, such an unbearable pain that I felt like screaming and since then I decided that I can't go through this anymore and that I can't wait to ctb. Even if I wasn;t sex repulsed I still wouldn't have sex because anything, ANY FUCKING THING that goes down there hurts me the most, more than anything that has hurt me in my whole life. You'd think that breasts would hurt less but nah, like a few days after I experienced the worst pain ever I experienced also the worst pain ever there. And then there's also breast cancer, I once eavesdropped a conversation between my sister and my mother talking about how my grandma had something up there and that it is ... ah, how the fuck it is said I don't remember... it is transmitted and passed on through generations and it could develop into breast cancer and with that either me or my sister could have this and I suspect it is me but of course that my sister or mother never told me this cause why the fuck would they care 1 second about me, I had to eavesdrop it.
Then there's pregnancy that can happen WIHTOUT HAVING PIV CONTACT. You read it well. I have severe tokophobia (fear of pregnancy) and mostly because of this. I once read a thread on r/childfree about a woman who never suspected that she could be pregnant, like she did have no signs at all and then.... she suddenly gave birth, with no signs of pregnancy at all prior and aftet that she gave the baby to adoption. It sounds like stuff from horror movies. It's absolutely awful.
Then there's societal pressure. How you have to make up, shave and pluck your eyebrows and just be perfect looking. I only shave and pluck my eyebrows for my own not because of society (which at the top who take the decisions are some old stinky dudes) that told me to do so. However plucking my eyebrows is especially painful. I'm kinda perfectionist and I hate it when there's hair outside my eyebrow shape, but I always cancel pluckig cause it's so fucking painful. Last time I almpst cried of pain.
Then there's the rampant misogyny every fucking where and what worries me the most is the femicide happening in Latin American countries. Women always end up tortured then killed there it's absolute nightmare.
There;s also rape that could happen anytime, anywhere to anyone and it's the scariest shit ever. This is why I'm always anxious.
I never consented to having a hole between my legs, a shitty uterus that ''CarRriES mAgICc'', ovaries and breasts. But of course I can't get rid of them because it's ''muh body muh choice'' when it comes only to tattoos or something like that and me living in a religious conservative hellhole I have absolutely no chance to even get STERILIZED.
If I had the choice to select my biological sex it would be male in a heartbeat. However genderwise I will never feel male or female which makes me be non binary, but biologically any fuckong thing is better than being female.
If I can hide me being AFAB then I'm happy. But in the end I still want this life to go fuck itself for being absoliute torture.
Edit: I also want to talk about how as an AFAB you only gain fat because of ''muh reproduction'' that this shitty evolutuon put over us. I wanted to put on some muscles since 2019 but I just slightly had my arms nicely sculpted and in rest I just gained more fat then I just gave up.
How do I even begin this... I hate everything about being AFAB. Absolutely everything. I failed at every chance of having a decent life when I was born, bullshit country, bullshit family, bullshit time, but being born biologically female hurt the most of all.
Being AFAB is equal to being always in pain. Something always hurts me. I fucking hate these female organs that I didn't consent to have. If I spend little time in hte cold my ovaries hurt lioke crazy and I have to always pee. Two-three weeks ago I experienced the worst pain ever... well, down there, such an unbearable pain that I felt like screaming and since then I decided that I can't go through this anymore and that I can't wait to ctb. Even if I wasn;t sex repulsed I still wouldn't have sex because anything, ANY FUCKING THING that goes down there hurts me the most, more than anything that has hurt me in my whole life. You'd think that breasts would hurt less but nah, like a few days after I experienced the worst pain ever I experienced also the worst pain ever there. And then there's also breast cancer, I once eavesdropped a conversation between my sister and my mother talking about how my grandma had something up there and that it is ... ah, how the fuck it is said I don't remember... it is transmitted and passed on through generations and it could develop into breast cancer and with that either me or my sister could have this and I suspect it is me but of course that my sister or mother never told me this cause why the fuck would they care 1 second about me, I had to eavesdrop it.
Then there's pregnancy that can happen WIHTOUT HAVING PIV CONTACT. You read it well. I have severe tokophobia (fear of pregnancy) and mostly because of this. I once read a thread on r/childfree about a woman who never suspected that she could be pregnant, like she did have no signs at all and then.... she suddenly gave birth, with no signs of pregnancy at all prior and aftet that she gave the baby to adoption. It sounds like stuff from horror movies. It's absolutely awful.
Then there's societal pressure. How you have to make up, shave and pluck your eyebrows and just be perfect looking. I only shave and pluck my eyebrows for my own not because of society (which at the top who take the decisions are some old stinky dudes) that told me to do so. However plucking my eyebrows is especially painful. I'm kinda perfectionist and I hate it when there's hair outside my eyebrow shape, but I always cancel pluckig cause it's so fucking painful. Last time I almpst cried of pain.
Then there's the rampant misogyny every fucking where and what worries me the most is the femicide happening in Latin American countries. Women always end up tortured then killed there it's absolute nightmare.
There;s also rape that could happen anytime, anywhere to anyone and it's the scariest shit ever. This is why I'm always anxious.
I never consented to having a hole between my legs, a shitty uterus that ''CarRriES mAgICc'', ovaries and breasts. But of course I can't get rid of them because it's ''muh body muh choice'' when it comes only to tattoos or something like that and me living in a religious conservative hellhole I have absolutely no chance to even get STERILIZED.
If I had the choice to select my biological sex it would be male in a heartbeat. However genderwise I will never feel male or female which makes me be non binary, but biologically any fuckong thing is better than being female.
If I can hide me being AFAB then I'm happy. But in the end I still want this life to go fuck itself for being absoliute torture.
Edit: I also want to talk about how as an AFAB you only gain fat because of ''muh reproduction'' that this shitty evolutuon put over us. I wanted to put on some muscles since 2019 but I just slightly had my arms nicely sculpted and in rest I just gained more fat then I just gave up.
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