
WhatPowerIs
Enlightened
- Jun 19, 2022
- 1,049
I admire masculinity and I wish I could become the ideal. I think it's possible to become conventionally masculine and not be "toxic" or an asshole or anything like that. I do wish I could do away with it all though. I hope in the afterlife I'm just a floating disembodied spirit. Our souls are trapped within our limited bodies, and other people expect our bodies to do this and that... am I missing the point? I can very much sympathize with the OP.
Months old post but, being able to say 'no' is one of the strongest things you can do. It's hard for me to say it too, I've always been a people-pleaser, but you and I don't owe anybody anything.I am definitely a beta male in the sense that I've always had trouble standing up for myself and setting clear boundaries. I wish this were not the case but unfortunately it is.