How would you feel

[Desperate_Soul]

if someone put your face or name up on a suicide memorial website along with a lengthy message?

http://www.suicide.org/wall-of-angels-suicide-memorials.html
https://www.suicidememorialwall.com
http://www.allianceofhope.org/memorials/
https://www.facesofsuicide.com

 

[bigj75]

I wouldn't care.

 

[Smilla]

I would despise it.

 

[lostinthedream]

I wouldn't mind.

 

[SnowyDreams]

that's awful. i don't even want to be remembered at all but if I was someone else I'd hate to be remembered only because I died by suicide. it's offensive tbh

 

[dhk96]

I wouldn't care.

I couldn't care, technically.


(Jokes aside, while I don't think anyone I know would notice my name on one of those sites, I would prefer my death to be as confidential as possible. The same goes for while I'm alive. I wouldn't like my face or name to be plastered on the internet. I want my existence to be a fleeting memory, even if that will be the case when everyone who knows me is gone too.)

 

[Sidestep]

The name and face they put up there would not be who I truly am. I'd be annoyed that they're honoring the wrong persona. But in general, what do they gain from honoring the deaths of those they did not even know? What are they even honoring? The fact that no one did anything to prevent these deaths? That the world will never change to allow those who suffer to find happiness in life? They share the stories of those who suffered as a way to prevent further suicides but all I see is the continuous failure of society to provide for those in pain. I don't understand it.
(Ehrm, apologies I'm a bit emotional now due to other things.)

 

[wanttodie]

I wouldn't care.

 

[Tiburcio]

I totally would refuse it. I want to stay anonymous and be forgotten after it and if somebody posts my real name and my photo and I survive for seeing it, I would feel enraged for it, it would mean somebody didn't respected my wishes.

 

[skitliv]

I couldn't care

 

[betteroffdead]

I'd be livid.

 

[BaconCheeseburger]

What would bother me about it is that I'd be idolised... As people generally are when they die, which wouldn't be how I've been treated whilst alive. I have no issue with people telling me how much they loved me, but I wish they were doing it now. I get that noone is a mindreader, though, so they won't know if I don't tell them.

 

[Lee]

Bemused.

 

[FadedMemory]

I'd be angry because I hate my face and I don't feel comfortable with it being on the internet. Also I don't wanna be fake-mourned.

 

[Bex83]

What bothers me is that people actually get hold of the deceased when they have committed suicide picture. And post them on the sites. Would hate that.

 

[Over n' Out]

I'd write to my MP and implore him to sort it out.

 

[CentreMid]

I don't like this. I think it's extremely disrespectful.

 

[CentreMid]

I mean the websites

 

[Caustic Cardinals]

i'll be dead they can parade my corps throw the streets for all it'd mater to me.

 

[Mayfil]

if someone put your face or name up on a suicide memorial website along with a lengthy message?
don't want any rats trying to use me for any reason this is sick
http://www.suicide.org/wall-of-angels-suicide-memorials.html
https://www.suicidememorialwall.com
http://www.allianceofhope.org/memorials/
https://www.facesofsuicide.com

 

[GeorgeEastman]

I'm glad they won't.

Still, they're gonna remember me. They don't want to, but they will. Not for anything good. That makes me kind of proud. Guess I really am a sick bastard.

 

[WrongWayGoBack]

It would only be a problem if it was done before insurance paid out. Otherwise who cares, I've no ego to maintain when I'm gone. My family would probably care more, and it's the family who has the final say anyway.

 

[Kev]

I'll be dead. I literally could not give any less of a shit.

 

[Deleted_9cKnXB34QG]

I don't wanna be remembered, but what could they possibly write about me anyway? I spend my life in front of a monitor doing fuck all xD
I basically don't even exist anymore.

 

[BlackDragonof1989]

I don't wanna be remembered, but what could they possibly write about me anyway? I spend my life in front of a monitor doing fuck all xD
I basically don't even exist anymore.

This made me lol and feel better about my own social difficulties and isolation offline. I also like Bojack Horseman, I need to see the new season ^^ I guess I'd appreciate being remembered, yeah I'm a normie in that way I wish I was stronger like the people here who don't want to be remembered at all and such, I admire this <3