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cryone
Experienced
- Nov 23, 2023
- 212
time is flying now, and I don't remember memories with any of my loved ones. my grandma is currently hospitalized and very ill. it's kind of a wake up call. she was apart of my entire life up until recently, but i don't remember her well at all. i am hardly sad and i feel ashamed of it too. i can't make any more memories with her...but even worse, i can't even cherish what we had. i easily forget how it feels like to be with loved ones when we're apart. even when family passed before, I would move on like nothing happened. and i know that my ability to forget can be interpreted as a blessing, but i no longer see it that way. it's easier to keep going when you don't hold on to the past, but on the other hand, I just don't feel like im living. all im doing is surviving in the moment without any sort of humanity. i wish i remembered my memories and people's presence. it feels dreadful knowing that the people i love to death I soon forget abt. maybe this is just the typical memory loss everyone experiences, but i feel like it's become such a huge problem for me. probably bc the environment i was raised in, which made me more inclined to forget as a way of coping. any tips to help?