How to stop caring

[rs929]

I believe that the only way out of this hell I'm living in is to stop caring. Stop caring I"m obese, I barely have any friends, That I'm getting older. That my loved ones will die. That I'm lonely. That the world is unfair. Just don't give a shit about anything
Is that even possible?

 

[justsad&done]

Unfortunately I don't think it's possible to stop caring when you are naturally a good, kindhearted person. Life is very unfair. Even if we try to put a wall up around us for protection, the unfairness of it all has a way of creeping in. But SS gives us support and friendship and that does help.

 

[Sensei]

OP, I've come to the same conclusion as you. If I could learn how to not give a shit I could cope much more easily. I believe it's the only way to recovery for me.

 

[Deleted member 14573]

Life is so much more difficult when you care and are sensitive to things. But these traits can also be your strength and make you the good and warm-hearted person you are.

So think of it as a limited resource. You can't give a fuck about everything. Just focus on the one or two things that matter to you. For me, a pet really helps. Everything else is not worth your energy.

 

[netrezven]

I finaly did it -stop carying couple of days ago after the shity christmas. I realised i can't live like most people and desided to stick to my plans and ambitions and the way i want to live and do stuff. And i prefer to pay this price instead of living like a sucker, surrounded by suckers.