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I don't believe that's the world we live in. Sex shouldn't leave you ashamed or "empty".
If you are having sex with people that make you feel bad or that treat you poorly, I think that would count as using sex as a form of self-harm. Also, having unprotected sex with an untrustworthy person or with several people might also be another form of self-harm and might potentionally be self-destructive, if you do not know if the person(s) are clean or not, seem overall sketchy or don't care. That's mostly because certain STI's/STD's are uncureable and might leave you infertile depending on your gender and if you were to have a kid, that kid could potentionally be born with that STI/STD.
